What Annoys Women and Attracts Them

What Annoys Women, AND What Attracts Them

Article by David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating

If you listen to women talk about men, you’ll often hear them use the word “ANNOYING” to describe certain men and certain things that some men DO.

Now, as you can probably guess, it’s not usually a good thing when a woman uses this particular word to describe a guy…

And, as you can ALSO probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word, it’s not usually about guys who she is ATTRACTED to (although this isn’t always true).

Now, it’s taken me a few years of paying attention to really get a handle on what women are talking about when they say, “He’s annoying” or “It’s so annoying when he does that”.

And guess what I realized was at the ROOT of women finding a guy or his behavior annoying?

IT’S ALMOST ALWAYS WUSSY BEHAVIOR!

AHHHH!

THINGS THAT ANNOY WOMEN…

Here are some of the things that many women consider to be “annoying”:

• Calling her too often
• Telling her that you have “feelings” for her too early
• Giving away your power to her and making her the boss
• Always asking a woman what she wants instead of leading
• Acting submissive and weak
• Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative requests
• Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside

“WHAT?” you say.

“HOW COULD THIS BE?”… you might be thinking.

How is it possible that demonstrating your affection for a woman by calling her, telling her how you feel, letting her make the decisions, and putting her first could be considered ANNOYING, of all things?

Well guess what?

IT IS.

Women, and ESPECIALLY the most ATTRACTIVE and desirable women, usually consider the above things to be VERY annoying.

Of course, the reason for this is because no matter how good these kinds of behaviors seem on the surface, there’s only one conclusion that can be drawn from them:

THE MAN DOING THEM IS A BONAFIDE, 100% CERTIFIABLE WUSSY!

AND WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

NEVER.

Now, do I really, really, REALLY mean that women are NEVER, EVER attracted to Wussies?

I mean, isn’t that an over- generalization?

Nothing is always true, right?

Well, this one IS.

Actually, what I MEAN is…

As far as generalizations go, this particular one is as close to being true all the time as they get.

And just in case I haven’t said this enough, let me say it one more time… just to make sure it’s clear:

WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

So now you understand why all of the “nice” things that you’ve done for women seem to always result in the woman pulling away.

It’s because she finds your nice-guy “Wuss” behaviors to be ANNOYING.

AND IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE…

To further confuse things, you’ll often hear a woman say something to the effect of…

“I want a STRONG guy who is also SENSITIVE…”

…or…

“He needs to have his own life, his own interests, and his own friends, but also be totally focused on me…”

I see things like this in women’s personal ads all the time. I’m sure you’ve seen things like this yourself.

Women often talk about wanting a combination of things in a man that just don’t seem to fit…

So what’s going on here?

Are women crazy? (Yes.)

But seriously, what are they talking about?

How is it that women seem to always talk about wanting men who have these qualities that don’t fit together?

I know that I personally used to hear this stuff and then say to myself “OK, well I’ve got the sensitive part covered so I guess I need to start acting a little bit stronger.”

I thought that maybe this came down to getting my lazy ass to the gym and working out. You know, to become “stronger”.

No, I’m serious.

Well, here’s the BIG REALIZATION that I had…

I’ve now realized that I had it all wrong.

Instead of thinking to myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little stronger, what I really needed was to become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on occasion.

The difference seems almost like word-play, but it’s not. Not at all.

You see, when a woman says that she wants a “strong guy who’s also sensitive”, that’s what she MEANS.

She wants a guy who’s STRONG. The sensitive part is far more “optional” than the STRONG part.

This is why women often date jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don’t date us “nice guys” who would do anything for them.

Remember, ATTRACTION ISN’T A CHOICE.

Women do not sit down and make a list of the qualities that a particular guy has, then think it over it for a few days, then DECIDE whether or not to FEEL ATTRACTION.

NO WAY.

It happens in an INSTANT, and it happens for all kinds of “illogical” reasons… reasons that even the woman who is feeling it can’t usually describe.

So what’s the answer here?

Before I tell you… if you are reading these words I’m saying, and you’re thinking to yourself “Yes! This is my problem!” then I want you to go DIRECTLY to this link before you read any further:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan

The answer here is to realize that many of the things you do when you’re around women that you feel attracted to, are considered ANNOYING by those women.

You must understand that you sometimes have to do things that SEEM to be “inconsiderate” in order to give a woman what she REALLY wants (which is a man who is in control of himself, the situation, and often her).

Raise your right hand, and repeat after me…

• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”
• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”
• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”

Stop doing things that say “I’m a Wussy”, because those are the very things that women find ANNOYING.

And START doing the things that you’re learning here.

Lean back. Act Cocky & Funny around women. Bust on them and give them a hard time. And LEAD the way, don’t follow.

Now, one of the problems that a lot of guys run into is “putting together” different personality traits that don’t seem to go together.

Women say that they want guys who are funny… but also strong.

Many of the things women SAY they want seem like they CONFLICT with each other.

What’s a guy to do?

Well, THE FIRST thing a guy should do is learn what WORKS.

Not what SOUNDS like it might work.

Not what SHOULD work.

And not what is SUPPOSED to work.

LEARN WHAT WORKS.

I personally spent several years trying to figure out what “works”. Why did it take me so long?

Because, as it turns out, I started out with a HUGE disadvantage.

And I’m not talking about a disadvantage like a big nose (which I have).

I’m talking about a disadvantage like BAD PROGRAMMING.

I had a “map” in my mind… of how I thought I should behave around women… and it turned out to be THE WRONG MAP.

The most frustrating part was that when I did the things that SHOULD work, they made women UN-interested. It was as if the world wasn’t working right.

would be sweet and nice, and a woman would not want to talk to me.

I would call often and share my feelings with her, and she would fall for the rude jerk who could care less about treating her well.

Well, as you might already know, sometimes I’m a “glutton for punishment”.

Translation: I stuck with it anyway. I kept trying to figure out what works… even though the things I was doing WEREN’T working.

The magic “breakthrough” came ONLY after I started making friends with and watching guys who were VERY successful with women… then putting what I knew about psychology and behavior together with the NEW stuff I was learning “in the field”.

What I discovered was literally SHOCKING to me.

I can remember slapping myself on the forehead, shaking my noggin, and laughing to myself… as I watched some of my new friends who were good with women… doing things that just plain SHOULDN’T work… but that DID work.

Here’s one of the lessons I learned:

Body Language is more important than WORD language.

In fact, you can have the smoothest “pick up lines” in the world… but if you don’t understand Body Language, the woman you’re talking to CAN’T feel ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s another one:

Doing “nice” things for a woman doesn’t make her any more likely to feel ATTRACTION for you. In fact, most of these things BACKFIRE… and wind up pushing her AWAY.

Here’s a third lesson I learned:

Even though “jerks” and “bad boys” don’t treat women well, it doesn’t mean that women don’t feel ATTRACTION for them.

In fact, women often report feeling INCREDIBLY attracted to these kinds of men… so powerfully, in fact, that they can’t CONTROL these feelings…

As I was learning these interesting and “counter intuitive” lessons, I also began documenting the specific things that the guys who were “naturals” with women did… in order to attract women.

One of my BIGGEST realizations was that literally ANY guy can attract women… if he just understands how ATTRACTION works. And any guy can use the secrets that “jerks” and “bad boys” have discovered and used… WITHOUT being abusive or mean.

In fact, if you LEAVE OUT the meanness or abuse, a woman will be FAR more likely to STAY around.

Recently, I’ve released two educational programs that teach two very important aspects of how to attract women.

LANGUAGE alone.

The first one is called “Body Language For Success With Women And Dating”. In this program, I will show you how to transform yourself from a “nice, sweet, annoying WUSSY” into a guy who women feel ATTRACTION for… by transforming your BODYLike I said, if you don’t know how to use BODY LANGUAGE to communicate with and attract women, then the WORDS you say DON’T MATTER.

I want you to go right now and watch some video clips from this program HERE:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

The SECOND important program I’ve released recently is called “Cocky Comedy”. In this program

I, and my special guests, spend several hours teaching you how to master the technique that I like to call “Cocky & Funny”.

This is one of the interesting SECRET techniques that the guys who are NATURALLY good with women use.

It’s a special mix of humor and arrogance… that really switches on the “chemistry” with a woman.

There is no other program in the world like this one… and I’d like you to go and watch some of the preview video clips so you get the idea:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

Oh, and if you haven’t taken the time to download my latest eBook “Attraction Isn’t A Choice”, then you really need to go and do that immediately.

You can go and download it right now, and be reading it within a few minutes. Download it here: http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

Turn The Table on a Woman Playing Hard To Get

Women playing hard to get is very common in the dating game. There are many reasons why women like to play hard to get with men. They may do it just to create extra sparks in the relationship, or they are simply not interested in the men who are wooing them.

So how should you turn the table around when you meet a woman who plays hard to get with you?

The first thing that you must know is the reason behind why she plays hard to get with you. There will be different hints that you can catch which will give you the answer. For example, if you find that the reason that she is playing hard to get with you is because she does not like you at all, then you should not waste your time on her anymore. Move on.

But there are also some interesting reasons why women play hard to get with men. One of the interesting reasons could be that she is just trying to find out how determined or interested are you in getting her to be your girlfriend.

When a man gets something without much effort, he will probably not treasure it seriously. This is also one of the major factors why women want to make sure that this does not happen to them. If she is interested to get into a serious relationship with you, she will want to make sure that you are dead serious about her.

So for this case, what you can do is to show your sincerity and love for her. Make her feel that she is special and just not like any other girls that you will take as your girlfriend. Give yourself some time and prove it to her to see. Once she realizes it, she will stop playing hard to get with you and be more receptive towards you.

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Women Want to Be Cherished

Another reason why she plays hard to get is because she wants you to cherish her more!

Have you ever feel that you don’t cherish something that you can get hold easily?

When you were a kid, did you really cherish the things that you could easily get from your parent? Or would you cherish something that you had spent time to strive for?

Just imagine if every woman says ‘YES’ to you and one day, a special woman comes along and says ‘NO’ to reject you straight in your face. Do you feel that it’s a challenge and therefore raises your adrenalin of wanting this special woman 10 TIMES more badly than anyone else?

If she just sleeps with you after one night, and returns all your calls and texts every time, you will lose the appeal and interest in her as you know that the hunt is over.

Sometimes, a woman just wants to make you more aware of her emotional side. You have to ‘WORK’ more for her affections as it is human nature to value something that you have worked for than just something you can get off the shelf.

Remember! Women are considered the most emotional creatures in this world! So satisfy their craving for emotional security.

She will also NOT want to let you have the feeling of taking her for granted if she gives in to you too early in the courtship. Let me illustrate why is this so.

From a simple survey that I have conducted between 10 guys, 8 of them said that they will not cherish their girlfriends if they are too easy to get.

Now do you know why she feels insecure if she agrees to be your girlfriend too early in the courtship?

How To Counter:
In this case, it is very obvious that she likes you and wants to know how serious you are about her.

So if you really want to get her to be with you, you must first make sure that she trusts you. Give her attention, oh boy, I cannot emphasize enough how much women care about attention, especially from her boyfriend or “potential” boyfriend.

Continue to keep in contact with her, and shower her with care and attention. Remember to call and text her, but do not make it sounds like you are very needy… this will only turn her off.

Absolutely not! There are still a lot of reasons why women think and behave in this manner… with countless of different approaches and tactics that you can use to counter them! If you really want to get your dream girl to become your girlfriend, you need to know more…

This is where i come in. I had conducted my research with a number of my female friends, and I have gathered all their reasons for playing hard to get in a book just for you to know it all!

This book is full of fresh reasons from the women, they can’t be wrong! Each reason comes with an approach that you can take to counter her “play hard to get” tactic! If you are already good with women, this book will make you even better!

I have decided to publish this manual as an “e-book” so that you can download immediately and discover the secrets right from the privacy and comfort of your computer. This book is not for sale anywhere else, it can only be downloaded from this site..

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10 Rarest Qualities of the Extinct Man

Most men are unsuccessful with women. Period.

It’s a fact and established “law” that 80% of women want 20% of men.

It’s called Pareto’s principle.

Pareto’s “law” applies to almost everything in life.

80% of results are gained from 20% of actions.

If you’re not in that 20% of men that get 80% of the success with women, it sucks doesn’t it? It  means you have to watch the same guys getting all of the best women. But you know what?The BEST thing about being a man today is that women are not exclusively looking for good looks, great body, money or whatever.

They are looking for everything: women want the whole package these days.

We’ve unravelled the mystery of exactly what women want… Even though, most of it they don’t even realize themselves!

… And we’ve broken it down into 10 easily trainable parts.

We call these parts…

***The 10 Rarest Qualities Of The Extinct Man***

Why do we say men with these qualities are extinct?

Because they are SO rare, that if you can just emulate a few of these qualities, you’ll find yourself in the top 20% of attractivemen.

If you manage to master all 10 of these qualities and let them “become you”, you’ll be amongst the rarest… Almost extinct… 0.1% of highest quality men that ALL women want. That’s what we’re doing here… Teaching you how to use these “mental attraction triggers” that short circuit women’s minds and generates massive unstoppable floods of attention from women.

Then, once you’ve gotten a few of these qualities mastered, you can use our step-by-step system for meeting women and generating massive attraction for you in their minds. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves…

Here are the 10 qualities of the extinct man (there are MORE but that is highly advanced material beyond the scope of this free web course). When you read this list, don’t let any of them put you off thinking “well, I am NOT this or that…”

…See the thing is, you don’t even NEED to BE these things… there are ways to flip the “mental triggers” in her mind so that she’ll ASSUME you are these things without you ever needing to say it, or even be it…

The 10 Rarest Qualities Of The Extinct Man

1. The leader (at work, socially, amongst peer group etc)
2. Popular (people want to know you and be around you)
3. Confident
4. Funny (have a good sense of humor)
5. Have social proof (be attractive to other women)
6. Be socially competent and have social intelligence
7. Strong/protective over loved ones
8. Looks/body (have good genes for her offspring)
9. Emotionally wired correctly
10. Have power (be willing to use resources to protect her

As I said, there are MORE, but these are a good start…

If you can just flip 5 of these mental triggers, you’ll have her WANTING YOU BADLY…

Seriously, this material is powerful enough to create total stalkers out of the most gorgeous high quality women that you would never dream would want to stalk you right now, I’ve been there… more than once. It’s a great feeling to know women want YOU… And exclusively you. It’s like you short circuit their brain to only SEE and THINK about YOU…

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