5 Vocal and Speech Signs That a Woman is Attracted To You

Matthew William Sharpe — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 17:24:45 +0000

Reading Female Body Language – Listen and Interpret

What a female says, how she says it, and the tone/inflection in her voice are important factors in determining how she’s feeling.

5 Vocal + Speech Signs in Women

A girl may have sexual interest in you if:

She interjects while you’re talking with enthusiastic words and phrases like, “Really?”, “Yeah…” and “Mmm…” This shows that she wants you to know that she’s interested in what you’re saying – a good way of getting you to like her back.
She matches your speech speed and tonality. This means that she’s speaking at the same rate as you and with similar inflections and nuances.
She echoes some of the phrases and words you have primarily been using. For example, a few minutes after you’ve said it, she might also use the word “gigantic” or say the phrase “Do you know what I mean?”.
The general tone of her voice becomes more enthusiastic and happy-sounding. She is quicker to respond to the things you say and not afraid to interrupt you. This shows that she feels really comfortable in your presence.
She uses the words “I”, “my” and “me” more often to get you thinking and imagining her as much as possible in your mind’s eye.

Go on to the next in this series on reading women’s body language, or check out the more thorough and comprehensive techniques, theories and tactics in Black Belt Seduction

10 Things You Need To Watch in a Woman’s Arms and Torso

Matthew William Sharpe — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 17:03:22 +0000

Reading a Woman’s Body Language – Torso and Arms

In addition to reading a woman’s head and face for attraction signals, you can tell a lot about how a woman is feeling (and if she is attracted to you) by what she does with her torso and arms.

How to read a Woman’s Arms and Torso

A woman may be attracted to you if:

She drops any physical barriers that were present between you and her. For example, her arms held across her body or drink held in front of her chest.
She strokes the back of one of her hands with the other, drawing attention to her soft skin and the idea of caressing it.
When she makes gestures with her hands, they move in close to you for a moment, perhaps even touching you briefly.
She pulls her upper arms tight in to the sides of her breasts, making them look fuller and more pert.
While you talk, she rests one of her elbows in the palm of her hand while holding her other hand palm-up.
She gently encircles one of her wrists with her hand and glides it up and down her arm.
She exposes one or both of her wrists to you. This indicates that she recognizes and likes your dominant presence and shows that she’s happy being submissive to you.
She sits with her torso facing in your direction with good posture, not slumping.
She fingers and plays with her jewelry, especially her necklace.
She touches your hand, shoulder or thigh while talking to you.