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Opening Routines to Start Conversation with Women

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Some Great Basic Opening Routines

Once you have the confidence to APPROACH a girl/s the first thing you have to do to attract women is to “open” them.

Opening is NOT built to attract, it’s simply to OPEN conversation and allow you to start demonstrating attractive qualities about yourself and flipping “mental attraction triggers” in their minds.
This “attraction trigger” flipping is done by the way of pre-practiced ROUTINES.

Yes, you go into every approach knowing EXACTLY what you’re going to say and how you’re going to steer the conversation – just like a stand up comic would.

YOU will have the control.

The approach WILL change, but you’ll have routines you can use to adapt to any situation.

Some guys say, well, if I’m using routines, is that really jusybeing me?

Well, of course it is, because they become YOUR routines… and they are only there to give you the greatest chance of being able to build enough attraction to be able to “freestyle” with the girl you just met… and just be yourself.

Here’s a few simple but effective openers

Remember, these are NOT built to attract, they are there to OPEN.

1. “Hey, can I get your opinion on something?“
2. “Oh my god, you look just like this girl I knew from high school“

Openers can be as short and simple or long as you want them to be as long as they open effectively. For dozens and dozens of TRIED and TESTED openers that have VERY high success ratios, check out the first few belts of the course.

Here’s an example of a slightly longer, more complicated opener from Mr. M.

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The ‘Do me a favour!’ opener for attracting women If you can get a girl to do you a favor, you automatically create a connection between you and her.

As soon as she agrees to help you out, she’s obligated to spendingtime doing something connected to YOU.

You need to choose the favor carefully though. Too big and there’s a chance she’ll say no.

Too small and she’ll be able to complete it quickly and therefore forget about you quickly too.

Here’s a good one you can use:

Walk up to a girl or a couple of girls who are talking to each other and say,

“Hi. Could you do me a favour?” Don’t give them time to respond to this, just continue by saying, “I’ve got a problem with this phone (hold a cell phone in your hand). I need to test it. Could one of you hold it for a minute, I’ll go over there and call you.”

Chances are at this point they’ll be interested but still a little unsure of you and what you’re suggesting. So smile
and with a real air of confidence, say, “It’s okay. It’ll be fun! What’s your name?”

Once they’ve agreed to help you out, move away from them so you’re out of sight, around the corner or something. If you’re at all worried about the safety of your cellphone in their hands, get a wingman (a buddy of yours) to keep an eye on them from a distance.

He can also watch to see what they say once you’re out of sight and then report back to you a little later. When you’re out of sight, don’t call them for at least 3 full minutes.

This will seem like an eternity to them.

They won’t know why you haven’t called.

Is the phone broken? Have you tried calling yet? What type of guy leaves his phone with some girls he doesn’t know?!

All they’ll be thinking about will be YOU and the situation they’re in with you.

After 3 or 5 minutes, call the phone they’re holding for you using a wingman’s cell. It’s up to you what you say, but be playful.

After chatting to them for a minute or two, go back to see them and quiz them on how it sounded and if the call went through okay.

The advantages of this opener are plenty. It’s fun, different and unusual.

The girl or girls interact with you three times in this opener. First when you approach them and ask the favour, second
when you call and speak to them (a nice touch is asking the one who answers to put her friend on the line after 30 seconds and then playing with both of them, being flirty etc.), and third when you go back to them at the end.

That’s three times the impact of any other conventional opener and guaranteed to be different enough that they won’t see it coming as a “pickup”.

Now go straight into some routines. Simple…

Get more openers and more effective, advanced routines in Black Belt Seduction by Matthew William Sharpe

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