How to Handle Phone Calls from Girls
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How do I handle phone calls properly?
The 19th in our 20 Methods You can Use to Attract Women series.
Sexy girl - talk to her on the phone!
It’s not possible to spend all your time physically with your new ‘prospect’—the woman you’ve attracted and, hopefully, had a Day 2 with. There are going to be lots of in-between times, when you’re not in each other’s company. It’s therefore important that you don’t let the positive dynamic between you and the woman go stale during these times, considering how lengthy and frequent they will be, especially towards the beginning of your relationship.
So, then, how do you handle phone calls and texts in the right way? How do you avoid coming off as
a loser who is pestering the woman for her attention?
Let’s start at the beginning. How should you handle the first phone call you ever make to her? It will probably occur either on the same day you meet her (making it about 5 hours after you meet her is good) or one or two days later. Here are some ground rules.
The phone call should:
- Be quick. It should NOT drag on any further than it needs to.
- Not be an attempt to arrange anything. This same-day call is NOT the call you’ll make to arrange your Day 2 with the girl. It serves a different purpose, which you’ll learn in a moment.
- Be fun, upbeat and flirty. The call must be a positive, enjoyable verbal interaction. It should flow easily and have something simple and straightforward as its subject matter.
- End on a cliff-hanger style comment. The call should end with you saying something quick that functions as a cliff-hanger style comment—something that makes the girl think, “I want to talk to him more!”
- Seem as much as possible that it’s justified in some way. The girl will subconsciously know that
you’re calling because you want to speak to her, but you should still make the call seem as much like it has a real, justified purpose as possible. This way, you preserve your social value, while still getting to talk to her.
Here is an example call which follows all of the rules above. You call and get her answer phone. Or, if she picks up, you freestyle by pretending to be her doctor. She’ll laugh the whole time. “Oh, Hi. This professor John Mac….erm… Macaroni? We met earlier in Eden (insert the name of the real place you met). I’m just calling to give the results of your test. Erm, yes, here we are. Yeah, I’m afraid you’ve tested positive for a hairy back and you have a 40% percent chance of developing a mono-brow. The results for the explosive flatulence test havn’t come back yet, I’m afraid. I’ll get to you on that. No, seriously, though. This is John, I was calling to ask you something, but I’ll speak to you soon. Seya.” You say it in a clear and confident way without sounding like you’re trying hard impress her make her laugh. You’re relaxed it and you don’t string out the “This is about John, I was calling to ask you something, but I’ll speak to you soon. Seya” bit by umming and ahhing. All of your phone calls should be free from tension. Make them last only as long as they need to and follow all the rules of good conversation that you follow during face-to-face talks, like demonstrating high social value, being funny without being outcome dependant, etc.