Sure, many people say it, but they don’t give you a way to improve your numbers. Hold on tight, because this issue is going to talk about just that very subject.

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying before that “Dating is a numbers game”.

Well in this post, you’re going to learn how this principal applies in the real world, and how you can use it to improve your ability to meet women.

First of all, what does that mean… dating is a numbers game? How does that actually work in the real world?

The reason you’ll hear so many people talking about dating as a numbers game is because of this simple truth. The more doors you knock on, the more will open.

Now there’s two ways to increase the amount of women in your life. The first one is to simple knock on more doors, and statistically… you will get more doors that open for you.

What that means is… the more women you approach, and ask out… the more women you are going to have saying yes. The flip side of that is you will also have more women saying “no” too.

The second way to get more women is to learn how to get a higher percentage of those doors to open. Let’s say you approach 20 women, and only 1 of them is interested in seeing you for a first date.

That’s a 5% “yes ratio”. Now, you could just approach 100 women, and get 5 “yes’s”, and that would be fine. You’d have 5 women in your life, and you’d be happy.

But let’s be honest, do you really want to have to go through 95 “no’s” to get to 5 “yes’s”?

I didn’t think so.

But what if you could learn how to get 4 or 5 yes’s for every 20 women you talked to? Wouldn’t that be much easier, and smarter than bulldozing your way through 100 women?

So what should I focus on first?

The first thing to work on is your approach, of course. The more women you approach, the more chances for first dates you will have. Try experimenting with these aspects of the approach to see what combination works best for you.

• Try smiling when you walk up VS. smirking.
• Try saying “Hi there” instead of just “Hi”
• Try complimenting her on a specific feature, instead of just telling her she’s beautiful.

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NOTE: The only way you’ll avoid “crashing and burning” ALTOGETHER is by knowing EXACTLY what to say and do with women… You need tried and tested secrets and routines that will SHORT CIRCUIT her attraction switches and make her find you attractive, sexually and emotionally – regardless of what she thought of you before she talked to you…

Guys try it on with girls and fail miserably to make the right kind of impression. As a man who knows how to use psychology and social dynamics, you should always be ready to work off another guy’s crash and burn and take advantage of something called the Law of Contrast.

First, a brief explanation of what a crash and burn is. Basically, a crash and burn is when a guy talks to a girl, tries to create an attraction for him in her mind and fails.

There are different degrees of crash and burns, from the most subtle (in which the girl doesn’t even realize the guy was coming on to her) to the most extreme (which may well end in the guy getting slapped or shouted out for his ineptitude and forwardness).

Clearly you don’t want to experience either of these and you won’t if you use your attraction and seduction techniques properly.

However, you CAN use crash and burns to your advantage when you see them happening in mixed groups (a collection of 3 or more people that consists of men and women).

Now, the Law of Contrast. This is a psychological rule that applies to all people, at all times. It goes like this: when two items, scenarios or people are placed side by side, the better of the two will always appear much more attractive and positive than the other would if presented by itself, without the other, less attractive option.

Imagine a plate of stinking, rotten food, totally inedible. You can barely look at it without retching and feeling sick. A fresh plate of food, placed next to it, would automatically seem like a much, much better eating option, perhaps even more so than if it were presented by itself.

In a social situation, you can use the Law of Contrast as follows to boost your appeal in the minds of attractive girls. Watch out for mixed groups that clearly contain guys who are either crashing and burning as you look on, or are unmistakably on their way to doing so.

Usually you can identify these guys from the body language of the girl’s they’re hitting on – negative, closed and uninterested. Head over, introduce yourself into their social reality with a decent situational or opinion opener and generally be yourself: confident but not arrogant, funny but not a clown and witty but not too sarcastic.

Placed side by side in the girls’ minds, you will easily come out on top compared with the guy or guys they’ve been putting up with so far and, as a result, you’ll stand a great chance of picking them up – probably much better than if you hadn’t used the crash and burn of another guy to create the comparison between you and them in the females’ analytical brains.

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