You Should Use Social Events To Meet Women

Pack Your Weekly Schedule With Social Activities and Experiences

By arranging as many social occasions per week for yourself as you can, you maximize your ability to pick-up women. This works in a secondary sense, as follows.

In one of my other tips I talk about you setting up “group” dates that you can invite a girl long to instead of setting up a potentially damaging one-on-one date involving just you and her. The more of these social gatherings and occasions you can arrange the better because the more you have in your schedule, the more of them you can use as:

1. “Group” dates, as in one of my previous tips.
2. Times to practice your pick-up skills on women you meet for the first time during these events and occasions.
3. Methods of gaining a healthy perspective on the pick-up game. You don’t want the goal of picking up women to become and be noticeable as your main, unchanging focus in life. If women you meet think it is, your chances of attracting them will be all but demolished. Instead, you should keep a busy social calendar and fit your interactions with women you want to attract around it.

Another tip soon Ben.

Ms. T.
NOTE: Getting out more is a quick way to MEET more women, if you have the guts to speak to them… For a list of the best 26 places you can go to meet women that most other guys don’t realize – NOT bars and NOT clubs – but places where competition from other men is MUCH lower, and quality of women is much HIGHER check out:

http://www.blackbeltseduction.com/home.php

Why The First 20 Seconds are Most Important when Meeting a Woman

First Impressions with women: The Initial 20 Seconds make ALL the difference.

Here’s how to make the absolute best impression on a girl you’re trying to attract.

We all know about first impressions and how important they are if we want the person we’re meeting to like us.

You should always remember that first impressions formed when trying to attract, are very different to those made at other times and in other social situations, like job interviews.

When you utter your first word to a woman, a clock begins to tick.

20 seconds later an impression has been formed that, although not impossible to change or correct, is cemented in the female’s mind.

Female first impressions of you consist of two things. First, how much the girl likes you. Things like confidence, physical appearance, social proficiency (how well you handle conversation, etc.) are all factored into this first component of the first impression.

The second component is what your intentions are, or what the girl guesses your intentions are – these can be two very different things, but either way your chances with the girl can be destroyed if she perceives your intentions to be anything but likeable and attractive to her.

So, always bear in mind that during the first 20 seconds or so of meeting a girl you need to focus on appearing more attractive and confident than at any other time during your conversation with her.

You also need to ensure you don’t come on too strong and give her too much attention, because doing so could make her think you’re trying to pick her up, which in a girl’s mind is almost always a negative thing.

If you get the first 20 seconds RIGHT, then your chances of successfully making a connection with your target are increased up to 86% (according to our in-field tests).

What Should You Do in the First 20 Seconds?

1. Use an direct or indirect opener.
2. Introduce a false “reason to leave in a second” to relieve pressure on the target group.
3. Use correct body language for the circumstances (alpha, friendly, open etc)
4. Start pre-built conversation routine…

And we’re at 20 seconds… And you’ve opened the group.

NOTE: You know WHAT to do in the first 20 seconds, want to learn HOW to do it? Check out Black Belt Seduction

Meeting and Attracting Women – The Basics

How Do I Start to Meet and Attract Women?

Source: Black Belt Seduction Crash Course

The first in our 20 Methods You can Use to Attract Women series.

That’s a good question. There is no official place to ‘start’ because not all men are the same. If every man was equally inept in certain areas and equally skilled in the rest, then we could have a nice clear starting point, middle point and ending point—but they aren’t and we can’t. This crash course is probably the best place to start because it gives you a little bit of information on a lot of different areas. These areas, of course, have been selected because they feature in the list of questions most men have when they’re just starting out this game.They’re  the core topics, if you like. But how about some more specific instructions, aside from working your way through this course. Let’s have a look.

Get your style and appearance up to scratch

There’s no point disadvantaging yourself from the outset. It’s important you exhibit up-to-date style in the way you dress and generally present yourself. You don’t have to be one of these straight-off-the-catwalk types, or a guy who spends more time staring in the mirror than the women he’s hoping to attract; just make sure you’re presenting your physical self in the best light possible. Look in the store windows of popular male fashion outlets, take a look in some men’s magazines and look at the styles and dress-sense of men who already appear to be successful in the dating game. There are some rights and wrongs (choosing ugly shoes, wearing garish colors, wearing sunglasses indoors, having a goofy haircut, etc.), but you don’t have to worry too much about pulling off a specific image—develop your own style based on trends that you know are currently attractive and representative of a socially-intelligent guy.

Start going-out a lot

You might hate trying to meet women in nightclubs, or nightclubs might be your favorite places to hang out and socialize. Either way, by going to nightclubs and bars regularly, you effectively develop and hone your social skills. You get used to being around groups of people (who you’ll sooner or later be approaching and talking to) and you generally get to feel comfortable in that environment.

Learn the most basic principles and arm yourself with a couple of choice tools

You’ll probably read this whole course before starting to go out there and make some approaches, but nevertheless at this early point in your journey, you should make sure you learn the most basic principles WELL and choose a couple of techniques you can rely on to help you get through your first approaches and conversations. For learn the most basic and useful principles, you should refer to the following sections of this crash course.

WHAT IS VALUE AND HOW DO I POSSESS IT?

WHAT IS ATTRACTIVE MALE BODY LANGUAGE?

HOW DO I BEAT APPROACH ANXIETY?

HOW DO I INVENT MY OWN OPENERS?

HOW DO I KEEP CONVERSATION FLOWING?

Click any of those titles to jump to the relevant topic.

With just those basic pieces of knowledge under your belt, you’ll be ready to start practising being ‘pickup artist’.

Once you know about value and attractive male and body language, you’ll be attractive to a lot of women. Once you’ve started to remove your approach anxiety, you’ll be able to go up to a group of women and start talking to them without too much fear. Once you know how to invent your own openers, you’ll be able to turn your approaches into conversations that last more than 60 seconds and which have the potential to turn into attraction-based interactions. And, finally, once you know how keep conversation flowing you’ll…well…you’ll be set. Those topics will give you a basic skill-set and THAT is where you should start.

-From author Matthew William Sharpe , Black Belt Seduction

20 Methods You Can Use to Attract Women

The Basics

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We’re starting a new series of free tips & tricks on how to meet and attract women. Here are 20 topics in which you can easily implement to meet and attract women. These are the basics… some of them may be no-brainers but we’re sure there are at least a few tricks you might not have realized.

Forward from the author, Matthew William Sharpe :

You could say that once a guy discovers that the attraction and seduction of women can be handled more like a step-by-step system than a game of chance, his journey begins. From that point onwards, his social life is different, because instead of being in a club wondering ‘Will I get lucky tonight?’ he thinks ‘Which group of people shall I approach, interact with, select a woman from and succeed not in ‘getting lucky’ but in getting ATTRACTION?’.

I don’t know how acquainted you are with the subject of picking up women, if you want to call it that, but regardless of your current degree of understanding and level of experience, this crash course will serve you in the same way. It has been put together to give you a strong overall view of the art of attraction and seduction, the Black Belt Seduction way. Instead of being a goat on the ground, forced to bumble your way through your first lessons, you’re a bird soaring in the sky. You are able to look down and get a very calm and comprehensive summary of everything you need to know to start your journey into the world of the pickup artist on the right foot.

So let’s not waste any time.

1. Basics of Meeting & Attracting Women
2. Do women perceive me as valuable? What is value to women?
3. Do looks or money matter to women?
4. What is attractive male body language?
5. Does a lack of sexual experience matter to women?
6. Does age matter when attracting females?
7. How to beat approach anxiety
8. How to invent your own pick up line ‘openers’
9. How do I know if a woman is attracted to me?
10. How to talk to a girl
11. How to touch a woman when you first meet
12. How to get a girls number
13. When and How to kiss a woman
14. How to build comfort
15. What to do after meeting a girl
16. How to arrange a second date with a girl
17. How to meet women during the day
18. How to avoid being ‘just friends’
19. How to handle phone calls from girls
20. How to handle text messages from women

All of these issues are covered in WAY more detail in Matthew William Sharpe’s eBook series. He’s got a pretty good setup: if you sign up for his newsletter he’ll send you A TON of free content (including the free pdf ebook download “Crash Course” in Black Belt Seduction from which this help series is based)

Check out all the stuff that Matthew is giving away: here