Is Dating Really A Numbers Game?

Discover the truth behind the philosophy that says dating is merely a numbers game.

Sure, many people say it, but they don’t give you a way to improve your numbers. Hold on tight, because this issue is going to talk about just that very subject.

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying before that “Dating is a numbers game”.

Well in this post, you’re going to learn how this principal applies in the real world, and how you can use it to improve your ability to meet women.

First of all, what does that mean… dating is a numbers game? How does that actually work in the real world?

The reason you’ll hear so many people talking about dating as a numbers game is because of this simple truth. The more doors you knock on, the more will open.

Now there’s two ways to increase the amount of women in your life. The first one is to simple knock on more doors, and statistically… you will get more doors that open for you.

What that means is… the more women you approach, and ask out… the more women you are going to have saying yes. The flip side of that is you will also have more women saying “no” too.

The second way to get more women is to learn how to get a higher percentage of those doors to open. Let’s say you approach 20 women, and only 1 of them is interested in seeing you for a first date.

That’s a 5% “yes ratio”. Now, you could just approach 100 women, and get 5 “yes’s”, and that would be fine. You’d have 5 women in your life, and you’d be happy.

But let’s be honest, do you really want to have to go through 95 “no’s” to get to 5 “yes’s”?

I didn’t think so.

But what if you could learn how to get 4 or 5 yes’s for every 20 women you talked to? Wouldn’t that be much easier, and smarter than bulldozing your way through 100 women?

So what should I focus on first?

The first thing to work on is your approach, of course. The more women you approach, the more chances for first dates you will have. Try experimenting with these aspects of the approach to see what combination works best for you.

• Try smiling when you walk up VS. smirking.
• Try saying “Hi there” instead of just “Hi”
• Try complimenting her on a specific feature, instead of just telling her she’s beautiful.

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