Cute Girl Pouting

Hey Dave,

Unsolicited, I think you’re book is AMAZING. NICE WORK! Breaking rapport with humor is a charm! I’m having a blast with it. Ex: Attractive older woman at the cash register tells me to move over to the next register, then she tells another clerk to take care of the next customer, I say, “You just order EVERYBODY around…DON’T you?” She goes, “I’m too old to get married, but I LIKE you! You’re REAL!” So of course, I responded, “Well, I just do what I’m told, but I’m not so sure about you…too BOSSY.” Women love this stuff!

Question: I’ve noticed in three different occasions where chicks have respond to my actions by pouting. I know that you’ve had some great recommendations, i.e., saying, “You’re cute when you pout.”, etc. and it works, but, in your opinion, have you found that the pouters have a lot of personal baggage? Or is that normal female behavior??…or BOTH. The last thing I want to do is get too involved with a neurotic. Please share your experience and observation.

Thanks, DJ
Chicago

Response from David Deangelo, author of “Double Your Dating”

Well, if you date enough women, you’ll get just about every possible response in the world.

Sure, once in awhile a woman will pout if you give her a hard time and tease her.

It’s a judgment call, but if you’re dealing with a fragile personality just say, “Oh, lighten up.”

Most of the time, just do what you’re doing… “You’re cute when you’re mad” is great.

Thanks for your story.