Hot girl on the phone

So I’ve been getting some great feedback from you guys regarding these lessons – thanks for your comments! A lot of you have been requesting advice on talking to girls on the phone.

As you know, talking to women on the phone is a key step to setting up the first “date.” So here are some great tips to help you get those girls from the phone, to your front door (or at least agree to meet with you…).

Some guys out there are just naturally articulate. If you’re one of those guys, thank your lucky stars because being articulate is really the name of the “Phone Game.”

The other part of Phone Game is confidence and portraying it accurately… Articulation and confidence do go hand-in-hand, however…

There are a few exercises that will help both your articulation and confidence… but here’s one of my favorites…

The Exercise

I want you to go and pull out a phone book right now… I strongly recommend you do this with a friend who is also interested in becoming more articulate and confident on the phone.

See where this is going? Good.

I want you to pull out five random phone numbers… now this is what I want you to do. I want you to call each one of them…

And I want you start a conversation and hold it for as long as possible… use small talk. Say to them that you’ve dialed the wrong number then immediately pose a non-threatening question. For each phone conversation, choose a topic beforehand…

A popular topic that I often use is movies. Say that you are going out for a movie with your girlfriend later that night and you want to know if they’ve seen any good chick flicks. You could also talk about shows on TV, music, sports, etc.

And if you don’t get an answer… call another random person. Don’t stop until you’ve called and talked to five random people.

Be funny, be yourself

Use some charm… and try and be funny. And don’t worry, remember this is just a random phone exercise – these people will probably never, ever know who you are. So let loose. Be yourself. Stay calm.

This is a huge part when talking to women… a lot of guys simply just freeze or don’t know what to say when they’re talking on the phone with an attractive woman. This exercise will help eliminate this anxiety.

A lot of you will still feel nervous when talking to these people, or feel a bit funny at the pit of your stomach. Don’t worry – that’s completely natural.

Even the most successful pickup artists get this feeling in their stomachs… the key difference is how they deal with this feeling…

And that’s the key to this exercise… just deal with that feeling and overcome it. The more you do it, the easier it is to deal with this weird “nervous” feeling…

Picture what the person you’re calling’s feeling if you present yourself in a funny and friendly way…
Do you honestly think they’ll hate you after that? Or have any contempt for you in any way? No. Unless you offend them of course… which you won’t.

Keep Practicing

Don’t let this exercise stop there. Start employing small-talk to random people that you see every day.

Trust me – as long as you are assumingly well-groomed and know how to speak in the correct manner, you will almost always get positive responses from people.

And that is exactly what I cover in my online seduction program. You’ll learn how to talk to people in effective ways that induce positive reactions and results. Especially women.

I will also include a list of body-language cues that will assist you when you engage in conversations with random people in real life. And yes, I will include body-language cues that will help you when talking to women… Especially on your first date! Just visit my website, The Online Game – Internet Attraction System.

I hope this exercise has helped you. I know 90% of you probably won’t try it – but I guarantee that you’ll be missing out on some great confidence-building! And we all know how important confidence is when it comes to picking up women.

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This cocky/funny stuff becomes part of you after you use it for a while. I have gotten numerous e- mails and dates under my belt thanks to you.

Example : I met this girl at a bar, mostly college crowd. Lot of guys were hitting on her. But as soon as I saw her alone – I approached her. Here is the dialogue:

Me: Hey, can I ask you a quick question?

Her: ya….

Me: You go to college around here?

Her: no (and then she looks away as if not interested)

Me: (I tap on her shoulder) So where you from?

Her: From…(she gives the city name 4hrs away from where I live)

Me: How do you like it here?

Her: I am visiting friends (She looks away again and talks to her friend).

Me: So what do you do in (her town)?

Her: I go to pharmacy school…

Me: SO YOU ARE A DRUG DEALER??

Her:(She cracks up and the ice is broken)…..small talk …..ya da ya da.

me: small talk…..ya da ya da

me: I need to go back to my friends but nice meeting you.(I turn
away)

her: nice meeting you too (I really had her attention by now)

Me: (Turn back) do you have e- mail?

her: I don’t check my e-mail often.

ME: “Ha!ha!ha!” (I started laughing loud)

Her:(Little disarmed)

Me: Do you have electricity?

Her: no….(cracks up)….I really don’t check e- mail.

Me: Listen girl….imagine the worst case scenario…(do as mentioned in you DD book) …..I just want to make friends with a DRUG DEALER.

Her: Okay…here is my e-mail.

TOTAL TIME – 3 minutes and 16 seconds to get her e-mail – yes i timed it.

We have exchanged e-mails back and forth now. She even asked me to come to her place to go partying/dancing.

I replied back saying: “What?? I don’t even know you and u want me already? Sorry I am not that easy. Whatever happened to the good old days when ladies invite guys for coffee first?”

She is special (she is awesome and seems to have good personal qualities). Problem is she lives four hours away – how do I go about doing this long distance thing? I told her to come on down to my town. Provided she has personality that matches her looks – I think she would be worth my time and I would drive 4hrs to see her.

-A.

Response from David Deangelo, author of “Double Your Dating”

I know, isn’t it great that this stuff actually works?

By the way, nice touch asking the pharmacy school gal if she’s a drug dealer.

This is a great example of EXACTLY what to do when you meet a girl. Read it again.

And as for the driving 4 hours thing… In the 4 hours of driving EACH WAY, you could probably go out and meet several other nice young ladies that are a bit closer. Maybe she loves to drive?

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I just wanted to start off by saying you have very valid points with women. I have worked at bars and restaurants where women come in looking to hook up with men. And the cocky-funny attitude works wonders. I’m 22 going on 23 and I have had no problem ever getting women to give me their number. But there is one problem I do have. That is timing “the call”. When should I call? Plus I used your “Are you single” approach with this very attractive girl. She gave me 5 mins of her time and I found out some cool things about her. She was very hesitant on giving me her number, but after I sat down to talk to her, she gave me her number. Well, I called her two days after she gave me her number and she was on the other line. So she told me to call her back in 15 mins. I waited 30 and she never answered the phone. so I left a message. Should I rip up her number and never call her again? Or should I call her in a week? Your advise would be greatly appreciated. Plus why would she give me her number if she planned on no talking to me in the first place?

Thanks.

Don’t Call Her, Email the Woman You Just Met

I personally think that this is one of the funniest questions I hear. I mean, haven’t you watched “Swingers”? lol…

My rule of thumb is to wait at least one day, but not more than a few. The real key is how OFTEN you call her, and more importantly, what you SAY when you call.

But let’s talk about the psychology of why women give out their phone numbers, and why I personally like to get email addresses.

You must remember that attractive women are being approached all the time by men, in one way or another.
They have an unlimited supply of guys to choose from.

I think that a lot of women who give out their numbers, but then respond by being flaky when you call, are doing something that many of us guys wouldn’t have thought of in a million years: I think they’re making themselves feel good.

Explained differently, I think that many women who give out their numbers are looking for the self-image-boosting hit of power that comes from having a lot of men calling them… men that THEY have the power to ACCEPT OR REJECT.

They can also use it to get attention from friends:
“All these guys just keep calling me! Why don’t they just leave me alone! Don’t they get the hint!?”
Now, don’t get me wrong. I know that this sounds a little bit negative… and I don’t mean to say that ALL women do this, or that ALL women are bad, etc. To me, it’s just part of the real world that you need to learn to accept and deal with.

Which leads me to why I get email addresses…
Keep in mind, I’ve tried a lot of different things when it comes to curing this problem of hot-and-cold women who act one way when you meet them, then totally different when you call.

And what I’ve found is that if you get EMAILS instead, you not only differentiate yourself, but you also increase your chances of hearing back from her by about 100%. No lie. For some reason, email has a power that a call does not.

If you have my ebook “Double Your Dating”, then you have read about the technique for getting a woman’s email address within a few minutes of meeting her. Email is also seen as lower risk by her… and it’s easier to get as well.

Try it. You’ll like it.

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