Womans Feet

Female Body Language – Feet + Legs

While interacting with a woman you’ve just met, or a girl you’re trying to impress, its important to read the signs that her ENTIRE body is emitting. Her legs and feet are no exception.

She’s attracted to you if:

• She brushes her thigh up against yours more than once.
• She crosses her legs and POINTS THEM IN YOUR DIRECTION. This accomplishes two things. First, it makes her legs look longer to the subliminal male mind(which is turn-on and attractive because it indicates youthfulness, and therefore fertility, in the female). Second, by pointing them in your direction she’s signalling that it’s you she wants you to notice her and her sexy legs.
• She crosses her legs, dangling her foot with her shoe hanging a little way off. Women wearing high heels do this a lot. It’s a subliminal message that, as well as doing what’s described in the for point before this one, says: “I’m tired and about ready bed…”
• She crosses then re-crosses her legs the other way. This doubles the effectiveness of crossed female legs, because of the very noticeable movement that’s involved in the action of re-crossing them.

Go on to the next in this series on reading women’s body language, or check out the more thorough and comprehensive techniques, theories and tactics in Black Belt Seduction

Woman Smiling

Signs of Attraction- Head and Facial Signals

If a woman is attracted to you, she will exhibit one or more of the following signs:

1. Eye contact increases. She holds your gaze for longer, more intense periods before looking away.
2. She starts to smile more than before. When she does smile, you can see that the muscles around her eyes crinkle just a little – indicating a genuine smile.
3. She nods more while you’re talking, showing that you’re on the same level and that she agrees with what you’re saying, even if you’re not making a specific statement or expressing a definite opinion on something. Combined with wide open eyes and a smile, increased head nodding is a very strong sign a girl is attracted to you.
4. She tilts her head slightly to one side. This head gesture indicates that she subconsciously wants you to know that she’s listening and interested in what you’re saying.
5. She licks her lips more often, drawing your attention to her mouth, which is a secondary sexual feature of the female body.
6. She purses/clenches her lips LESS often. Pursed or tensed lips are often signs a person is a little bored. Women don’t mind tensing their lips around people they’re not attracted to, but will rarely do it when talking to men they feel sexual chemistry with—simply because they need their lips to look attractive and inviting.
7. She bites the inside of her cheek LESS often. This is the mouth’s equivalent of the twiddling of our thumbs. The less she does it, the better it is for you and your chances with her.
8. She tilts her head downwards a little, lowering her chin down closer to her chest and widening her eyes at the same time. Women subliminally do this because it makes their faces more attractive to the basic instincts present in the male brain. Bigger eyes appeal to the male sexual psyche.
9. Conversely, women often lower their upper eyelids a little when they’re attracted to the man they’re talking to. They are often known as “bedroom eyes” and are reminiscent of the facial expression seen on women’s faces when they reach orgasm. When women give you bedroom eyes while you talk to them they’re indicating that they’re in a sexual state and want you to know it.
10. She gives you a sort of slightly sideways glance instead of positioning her face so it’s looking directly at you. This is a woman’s way of creating sexual tension between you and her. The sideways glance is saying “chase me”.
11. She tilts her head to the side slightly. It’s not only a sign she wants to appear to be listening to you and everything you’re saying, it’s also a way of exposing her neck to you and therefore appearing a little vulnerable. She sees you an attractive, dominant man wants and you to know it.
12. She flicks her hair from one side to the other. Doing this accomplishes three things. First, it draws your attention to her long, feminine hair (a positive feature in the male evolutionary brain). Second, it exposes her neck (see previous point). Third, it’s a noticeable, attention-grabbing motion. The movement makes you want to look at the person that’s made it. Just like when you’re walking down the street and you see movement naturally glance direction see what it is and what it could mean to you, your safety and your general situation.
13. She draws your attention to her mouth by touching or stoking her lips.
14. She rubs her face, head or neck for a moment with one of her hands. This raises her arm, drawing her breasts up, closer to your line of sight and exposes her underarms – an effective way of blasting her pheromones out in your direction.
15. This one mainly applies before you approach and start talking to a girl. She makes eye contact with you, then, a split second after your eyes meet, looks away and turns her head either downwards or to the side.
16. Her blink rate increases, which draws your attention to her eyes and long, fluttering eyelashes.

Go on to the next in this series on reading women’s body language, or check out the more thorough and comprehensive techniques, theories and tactics in Black Belt Seduction

Bedroom Eyes

“How do I know if a woman is attracted to me?”

This question is a little bit slippery, so we need to break it down a bit. The question can mean a few different things, depending on who the word ‘she’ is referring to and what kind of ‘attraction’ you’re wondering about. For example, this question could be asked about the following scenarios and produce three very different answers on whether or not a woman is attracted to you.

1. I’ve been married to my wife for twenty years. Is she attracted to me?
2. There’s a girl in my biology class who I talk to quite a lot. Is she attracted to me?
3. I’ve just started a conversation with three girls. 2 minutes have passed, is the one of the left attracted to me?

Today we’ll mostly focus on the kind of scenario described number three. In a way, this kind of scenario is the purest you can get. The women have only just met you. They have no preconceptions of what you’ll be like—no one has told them about you. They can only judge you based on what you look like and what you say and do. this situation, how can you determine whether or not a woman is attracted you?

Main signs of female attraction

• Lots of extended smiling
• Giggling
• Looking up at you, tilting her chin down
• Moving closer to you
• Teasing you to see how you’ll react and to get you to tease her back
• Touching you in any way

Here are the detailed things to look for:

• Head and Face
• Arms and Torso
• Legs and Feet
• Voice/Speech

General/Behavioural Changes

• She moves in closer to you so that your bodies are less than 12 inches apart.
• She mirrors your actions a moment after you’ve made them. For example, by taking a sip of her drink just after you take sip of yours.
• She uses flirtier language and smiles in a mischievous way at you (women will only tend to do this if you yourself are flirty).
• Your gut tells you she is enjoying your company and is attracted to you. Trust your gut if it’s giving you this impression – the chances are that you HAVE been picking up on positive signs from the female and that they are good indicators that she’s sexually attracted to you.

Remember that no woman will ever give you all of the signals and signs listed here (imagine how much she’d be doing with her arms, legs and head!) Instead, you’ll notice a few of them. For example, exposed wrists, a tilted head and lots of words that signal agreement with what you’re saying. You’ll develop your attraction-detection ability over time, but when you’re just starting out, focus on just a few of them.

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