Being Cocky and Funny Helps Get Chicks

Hi Dave,

This cocky/funny stuff becomes part of you after you use it for a while. I have gotten numerous e- mails and dates under my belt thanks to you.

Example : I met this girl at a bar, mostly college crowd. Lot of guys were hitting on her. But as soon as I saw her alone – I approached her. Here is the dialogue:

Me: Hey, can I ask you a quick question?

Her: ya….

Me: You go to college around here?

Her: no (and then she looks away as if not interested)

Me: (I tap on her shoulder) So where you from?

Her: From…(she gives the city name 4hrs away from where I live)

Me: How do you like it here?

Her: I am visiting friends (She looks away again and talks to her friend).

Me: So what do you do in (her town)?

Her: I go to pharmacy school…

Me: SO YOU ARE A DRUG DEALER??

Her:(She cracks up and the ice is broken)…..small talk …..ya da ya da.

me: small talk…..ya da ya da

me: I need to go back to my friends but nice meeting you.(I turn
away)

her: nice meeting you too (I really had her attention by now)

Me: (Turn back) do you have e- mail?

her: I don’t check my e-mail often.

ME: “Ha!ha!ha!” (I started laughing loud)

Her:(Little disarmed)

Me: Do you have electricity?

Her: no….(cracks up)….I really don’t check e- mail.

Me: Listen girl….imagine the worst case scenario…(do as mentioned in you DD book) …..I just want to make friends with a DRUG DEALER.

Her: Okay…here is my e-mail.

TOTAL TIME – 3 minutes and 16 seconds to get her e-mail – yes i timed it.

We have exchanged e-mails back and forth now. She even asked me to come to her place to go partying/dancing.

I replied back saying: “What?? I don’t even know you and u want me already? Sorry I am not that easy. Whatever happened to the good old days when ladies invite guys for coffee first?”

She is special (she is awesome and seems to have good personal qualities). Problem is she lives four hours away – how do I go about doing this long distance thing? I told her to come on down to my town. Provided she has personality that matches her looks – I think she would be worth my time and I would drive 4hrs to see her.

-A.

Response from David Deangelo, author of “Double Your Dating”

I know, isn’t it great that this stuff actually works?

By the way, nice touch asking the pharmacy school gal if she’s a drug dealer.

This is a great example of EXACTLY what to do when you meet a girl. Read it again.

And as for the driving 4 hours thing… In the 4 hours of driving EACH WAY, you could probably go out and meet several other nice young ladies that are a bit closer. Maybe she loves to drive?

Cocky-Funny Attitude Works On Women

David,

I just wanted to say I LOVE YOU MAN! for emphasizing the COCKY AND FUNNY philosophy. I’ve recently tried out this Internet dating thing and man I’m telling you that I turned up the volume to the max on being “cocky and funny” towards the cutest chicks on the web. Let me tell you man that my profile reads like a d*ckhead who can be hilarious at the same time wrote this stuff. I would say things like I got “abs” and sh*t, and that I only date girls with pretty faces and who have cute feet and straight teeth; that I like to party and have fun and look good doing it and that my weakness is that I can be an a**hole sometimes but give me one reason to change? You would not believe the response so far. I’ll keep you posted.

Keep up the good advice.

V.

Response from David Deangelo, author of “Double Your Dating”

lol… You just gotta love guys who take things to the limit, huh? I think you’re starting to get it… lol.

Seducing A Woman At Work That Has a Boyfriend

David

Being cocky is the best way to go! I have picked up more chicks reading your newsletter then I ever have in my life. Getting the digits is a problem i used to have and really sweat about. But now its a breeze! and i average about 3-5 a week.

But anyway to my dilemma..! I met this chick at work, she is very good looking and we flirt all the time. But she has a boyfriend! He drives a killer truck and he is 22 and im 19. Recently we have been flirting and talking more then ever. but a co-worker went up to her and said that i really like her and that she should stop sending me the wrong signals since she has a boyfriend. So she comes up to me and tells me that flirting is just part of her personality and that she has a boyfriend that she plans on being with for a while. But it just doesn’t add up… when im around her i get a totally different vibe… everybody around me tells me that they can tell she wants me. Plus i already have her number THANKS TO YOU!!!! but how do i get past the mature rich boyfriend. Or boyfriends in general!! im stumped on how to retaliate Please help me find out what she wants, and how to send the bf packin! i am so stuck on this chick that i even find myself being depressed after that day… HELP ME!!!

-your loyal fan.

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Answer from David Deangelo, author of “Double Your Dating”

With all the women out there that don’t have boyfriends who drive trucks… and don’t work at the same place you do (which can only lead to problems in the long run), why are you spending your time pining away over this one?

I know, I know. She’s extra good-looking, and she’s funny, and blah blah blah. Look, just be her friend, and keep teasing her. She’s great target practice.

But do yourself a major favor, and go find a girl who doesn’t have a truck-owning boyfriend, and who doesn’t work with you.

Then, if the stars align in the future, she won’t have Truck Man anymore, and you won’t work at the same place, and she’ll be so attracted to you from all of the teasing that she’ll follow you around like a puppy.

Stop wasting your mental energy trying to get something that has a high risk of turning out very bad, and focus on finding opportunities that make more sense.

For life-changing tips and tricks, check out David Deangelo’s “Double Your Dating”

Double Your Dating Reviews

Double Your Dating

Author : David DeAngelo

Reviews and Testimonials

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What Annoys Women and Attracts Them

What Annoys Women, AND What Attracts Them

Article by David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating

If you listen to women talk about men, you’ll often hear them use the word “ANNOYING” to describe certain men and certain things that some men DO.

Now, as you can probably guess, it’s not usually a good thing when a woman uses this particular word to describe a guy…

And, as you can ALSO probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word, it’s not usually about guys who she is ATTRACTED to (although this isn’t always true).

Now, it’s taken me a few years of paying attention to really get a handle on what women are talking about when they say, “He’s annoying” or “It’s so annoying when he does that”.

And guess what I realized was at the ROOT of women finding a guy or his behavior annoying?

IT’S ALMOST ALWAYS WUSSY BEHAVIOR!

AHHHH!

THINGS THAT ANNOY WOMEN…

Here are some of the things that many women consider to be “annoying”:

• Calling her too often
• Telling her that you have “feelings” for her too early
• Giving away your power to her and making her the boss
• Always asking a woman what she wants instead of leading
• Acting submissive and weak
• Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative requests
• Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside

“WHAT?” you say.

“HOW COULD THIS BE?”… you might be thinking.

How is it possible that demonstrating your affection for a woman by calling her, telling her how you feel, letting her make the decisions, and putting her first could be considered ANNOYING, of all things?

Well guess what?

IT IS.

Women, and ESPECIALLY the most ATTRACTIVE and desirable women, usually consider the above things to be VERY annoying.

Of course, the reason for this is because no matter how good these kinds of behaviors seem on the surface, there’s only one conclusion that can be drawn from them:

THE MAN DOING THEM IS A BONAFIDE, 100% CERTIFIABLE WUSSY!

AND WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

NEVER.

Now, do I really, really, REALLY mean that women are NEVER, EVER attracted to Wussies?

I mean, isn’t that an over- generalization?

Nothing is always true, right?

Well, this one IS.

Actually, what I MEAN is…

As far as generalizations go, this particular one is as close to being true all the time as they get.

And just in case I haven’t said this enough, let me say it one more time… just to make sure it’s clear:

WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

So now you understand why all of the “nice” things that you’ve done for women seem to always result in the woman pulling away.

It’s because she finds your nice-guy “Wuss” behaviors to be ANNOYING.

AND IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE…

To further confuse things, you’ll often hear a woman say something to the effect of…

“I want a STRONG guy who is also SENSITIVE…”

…or…

“He needs to have his own life, his own interests, and his own friends, but also be totally focused on me…”

I see things like this in women’s personal ads all the time. I’m sure you’ve seen things like this yourself.

Women often talk about wanting a combination of things in a man that just don’t seem to fit…

So what’s going on here?

Are women crazy? (Yes.)

But seriously, what are they talking about?

How is it that women seem to always talk about wanting men who have these qualities that don’t fit together?

I know that I personally used to hear this stuff and then say to myself “OK, well I’ve got the sensitive part covered so I guess I need to start acting a little bit stronger.”

I thought that maybe this came down to getting my lazy ass to the gym and working out. You know, to become “stronger”.

No, I’m serious.

Well, here’s the BIG REALIZATION that I had…

I’ve now realized that I had it all wrong.

Instead of thinking to myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little stronger, what I really needed was to become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on occasion.

The difference seems almost like word-play, but it’s not. Not at all.

You see, when a woman says that she wants a “strong guy who’s also sensitive”, that’s what she MEANS.

She wants a guy who’s STRONG. The sensitive part is far more “optional” than the STRONG part.

This is why women often date jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don’t date us “nice guys” who would do anything for them.

Remember, ATTRACTION ISN’T A CHOICE.

Women do not sit down and make a list of the qualities that a particular guy has, then think it over it for a few days, then DECIDE whether or not to FEEL ATTRACTION.

NO WAY.

It happens in an INSTANT, and it happens for all kinds of “illogical” reasons… reasons that even the woman who is feeling it can’t usually describe.

So what’s the answer here?

Before I tell you… if you are reading these words I’m saying, and you’re thinking to yourself “Yes! This is my problem!” then I want you to go DIRECTLY to this link before you read any further:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan

The answer here is to realize that many of the things you do when you’re around women that you feel attracted to, are considered ANNOYING by those women.

You must understand that you sometimes have to do things that SEEM to be “inconsiderate” in order to give a woman what she REALLY wants (which is a man who is in control of himself, the situation, and often her).

Raise your right hand, and repeat after me…

• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”
• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”
• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”

Stop doing things that say “I’m a Wussy”, because those are the very things that women find ANNOYING.

And START doing the things that you’re learning here.

Lean back. Act Cocky & Funny around women. Bust on them and give them a hard time. And LEAD the way, don’t follow.

Now, one of the problems that a lot of guys run into is “putting together” different personality traits that don’t seem to go together.

Women say that they want guys who are funny… but also strong.

Many of the things women SAY they want seem like they CONFLICT with each other.

What’s a guy to do?

Well, THE FIRST thing a guy should do is learn what WORKS.

Not what SOUNDS like it might work.

Not what SHOULD work.

And not what is SUPPOSED to work.

LEARN WHAT WORKS.

I personally spent several years trying to figure out what “works”. Why did it take me so long?

Because, as it turns out, I started out with a HUGE disadvantage.

And I’m not talking about a disadvantage like a big nose (which I have).

I’m talking about a disadvantage like BAD PROGRAMMING.

I had a “map” in my mind… of how I thought I should behave around women… and it turned out to be THE WRONG MAP.

The most frustrating part was that when I did the things that SHOULD work, they made women UN-interested. It was as if the world wasn’t working right.

would be sweet and nice, and a woman would not want to talk to me.

I would call often and share my feelings with her, and she would fall for the rude jerk who could care less about treating her well.

Well, as you might already know, sometimes I’m a “glutton for punishment”.

Translation: I stuck with it anyway. I kept trying to figure out what works… even though the things I was doing WEREN’T working.

The magic “breakthrough” came ONLY after I started making friends with and watching guys who were VERY successful with women… then putting what I knew about psychology and behavior together with the NEW stuff I was learning “in the field”.

What I discovered was literally SHOCKING to me.

I can remember slapping myself on the forehead, shaking my noggin, and laughing to myself… as I watched some of my new friends who were good with women… doing things that just plain SHOULDN’T work… but that DID work.

Here’s one of the lessons I learned:

Body Language is more important than WORD language.

In fact, you can have the smoothest “pick up lines” in the world… but if you don’t understand Body Language, the woman you’re talking to CAN’T feel ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s another one:

Doing “nice” things for a woman doesn’t make her any more likely to feel ATTRACTION for you. In fact, most of these things BACKFIRE… and wind up pushing her AWAY.

Here’s a third lesson I learned:

Even though “jerks” and “bad boys” don’t treat women well, it doesn’t mean that women don’t feel ATTRACTION for them.

In fact, women often report feeling INCREDIBLY attracted to these kinds of men… so powerfully, in fact, that they can’t CONTROL these feelings…

As I was learning these interesting and “counter intuitive” lessons, I also began documenting the specific things that the guys who were “naturals” with women did… in order to attract women.

One of my BIGGEST realizations was that literally ANY guy can attract women… if he just understands how ATTRACTION works. And any guy can use the secrets that “jerks” and “bad boys” have discovered and used… WITHOUT being abusive or mean.

In fact, if you LEAVE OUT the meanness or abuse, a woman will be FAR more likely to STAY around.

Recently, I’ve released two educational programs that teach two very important aspects of how to attract women.

LANGUAGE alone.

The first one is called “Body Language For Success With Women And Dating”. In this program, I will show you how to transform yourself from a “nice, sweet, annoying WUSSY” into a guy who women feel ATTRACTION for… by transforming your BODYLike I said, if you don’t know how to use BODY LANGUAGE to communicate with and attract women, then the WORDS you say DON’T MATTER.

I want you to go right now and watch some video clips from this program HERE:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

The SECOND important program I’ve released recently is called “Cocky Comedy”. In this program

I, and my special guests, spend several hours teaching you how to master the technique that I like to call “Cocky & Funny”.

This is one of the interesting SECRET techniques that the guys who are NATURALLY good with women use.

It’s a special mix of humor and arrogance… that really switches on the “chemistry” with a woman.

There is no other program in the world like this one… and I’d like you to go and watch some of the preview video clips so you get the idea:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

Oh, and if you haven’t taken the time to download my latest eBook “Attraction Isn’t A Choice”, then you really need to go and do that immediately.

You can go and download it right now, and be reading it within a few minutes. Download it here: http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,