What to put in your online dating profile

Like I’ve said many times before…  There’s definitely no shortage of men out there that have HORRID profiles.

Creepy pictures, using terrible language in their profiles,and other massive blunders that kill their chances at  meeting QUALITY women. I mean, what’s 10 minutes of good work worth inyour profile?

Ask these guys…

“Before I used your profile optimization methods,I would never, ever get any messages from women. None of them ever really approached me online!  But after just 15 minutes of a little ‘work’, I’ve been regularly receiving e-mails from women.  YOUR STUFF JUST PLAIN WORKS.”

– Erik Sorenson (dirkph@hotmail.com)

“At first I thought… what the HELL are these changes going to make? It didn’t hurt to try them, I guess… Then I put in the 10 minutes to optimize my profile using Derek Lamont’s methods.  The result?  I’ve been getting more random messages AND women are DEFINITELY more welcoming when I message them. ”

- Gary Borland, Toronto, Ontario

Here’s Derek Lamont’s Response:

In the last lesson, we went over some key points to help you succeed with your instant-messaging game.  Today, I’m going to go over another important aspect of your online profile… your profile content.

I’m basically referring to those little boxes in your profile that lists your interests, hobbies, or anything about you.

Let me first tell you about one of my friends who just recently took up online dating…

I gave him some basic tips… nothing too extraordinary… and he started making a profile.  He messaged three good-looking girls and got three messages back.

The good thing is… at least he got replies.  I was shocked!  I thought he wasn’t even going to get that far.  The bad thing is… the girls didn’t seem all that terribly interested in him.  They didn’t ask him many questions in the replies…

Two girls definitely tried to reciprocate interest, and the other did not at all.

So he asked for my help.  I took a quick glance at his profile and shook my head.

“Dude, totally wrong.  Take this *#(& off right now!  There are three things wrong with this profile.  I’ll tell you one of them.” I said to him…

What to put in your online dating profile

I told him that he was giving away way too much information in his profile content – something that you should avoid too.

He was basically listing almost everything about him… everything that had to do with his job, how many tattoos he had, all the places he’s been in his life… he put down everything.

Let’s look at his profile from a female perspective.  First of all, she has so much crap to read that she doesn’t even care about!  The details, although they might be interesting, are not to be put on the profile content section.

Why?

It’s far too redundant to read in this context.  It may be appropriate for a phone conversation or real-life conversation, but on the internet… people want concise information.

The fact that he wrote about his tattoos wasn’t THAT bad… but he just went into disgusting detail… no one needed to know that he has a tattoo on his “upper back,” his “lower abdominal region,” and his “left pinky-toe.”  (Okay, I’m exaggerating a bit here, but you get the drift… just too much detail!)

People just simply don’t care about that type of detail at this point…

Not only that, but it simply just kills one of the most important aspects of picking up women…

MYSTERY!

Some men just ruin their chances by giving away way too much and not creating a sufficient level of mystery that keeps women interested.

You also eliminate the opportunity for small-talk by giving away too much small-talk information.  This is what my friend really did wrong here… he eliminated any amount of small talk that women just seem to love.

I’m talking about questions like…

So what do you do?  Have any tattoos?  So where have you travelled to?  What are you taking in school?  What kind of hobbies do you enjoy?

Well, if he addressed all of those issues, there isn’t much of a point in asking those questions, is there?

There is a certain way to tell your information in such a way that it doesn’t destroy the “allure”… the “enigma”… the “mystery.”

I go over all of those techniques in my #1 selling program, The Online Game: Internet Attraction System In it, I basically cover all the key steps for creating the aforementioned mystery and allure…

I’ll also share with you some secret psychological measures that you can easily employ in your profile that basically tell women to respond to you and show interest.

Don’t make the same mistakes all the other guys do on online dating and social networking websites and gain the edge!

Keep an eye out for my next lesson that should be released in the next few days… you won’t want to miss it – I’ll cover some really juicy tips to get those women you want in bed.

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How to Get The Upper Hand In The Relationship

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Dave,

its working too good for me!!!….lol! You truly know ur stuff. I’ve had so many girls pursue me in the last couple of months. Ive narrowed down my girls down to 2 and they both cant get enough of me, but theres one i really like out of the 2. I’ve recently decided to break it off with one of them and stick with the one i really like, but there’s a problem. With the one that i really like, no one really has the upper hand in the relationship. I dont know what i have to do to gain this powerful control. How can i make this girl wait on my every word!??!?! Any help would be much appreciated. Once again, you are the man Dave.

Thanks again.

B.

Response from David Deangelo, author of “Double Your Dating”

Ahhhhh… interesting.

The one you like is the one who won’t allow herself to be controlled. An attractive woman with a sharp mind and a quick wit. A challenge.

Probably not a coincidence, my friend.

Of course, this is the same thing a woman is looking for in a man… someone who is interesting, challenging, unpredictable…

If I were you, I’d thank my lucky stars that:

1) You found a woman that is this great.

2) You learned how to be and stay attractive to her.

You sound like a guy who’s interested in having a great relationship, but I’m not a relationship counselor.

I get guys INTO troubles like yours, not help them deal with it!

You poor, poor dear.

OK, I gotta go… but one more thing…

If you are thinking to yourself “I really, really need to get this part of my life handled”…

Then YOU’RE RIGHT.

You certainly do need to get it handled.

You need to learn how to become more successful with women and dating RIGHT NOW.

And the very best way to learn how is to get yourself a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.

I spent literally YEARS figuring out all of the hundreds and hundreds of ideas, theories and step-by-step techniques that I teach in this program…and you can have it in your hot little hands to check out at MY RISK. I’ll send it to you for a month… and you don’t have to decide if you want to keep it until AFTER you’ve had a chance to go through it and test it all out.

I’m THAT confident about it helping you.

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