This cocky/funny stuff becomes part of you after you use it for a while. I have gotten numerous e- mails and dates under my belt thanks to you.

Example : I met this girl at a bar, mostly college crowd. Lot of guys were hitting on her. But as soon as I saw her alone – I approached her. Here is the dialogue:

Me: Hey, can I ask you a quick question?

Her: ya….

Me: You go to college around here?

Her: no (and then she looks away as if not interested)

Me: (I tap on her shoulder) So where you from?

Her: From…(she gives the city name 4hrs away from where I live)

Me: How do you like it here?

Her: I am visiting friends (She looks away again and talks to her friend).

Me: So what do you do in (her town)?

Her: I go to pharmacy school…

Me: SO YOU ARE A DRUG DEALER??

Her:(She cracks up and the ice is broken)…..small talk …..ya da ya da.

me: small talk…..ya da ya da

me: I need to go back to my friends but nice meeting you.(I turn
away)

her: nice meeting you too (I really had her attention by now)

Me: (Turn back) do you have e- mail?

her: I don’t check my e-mail often.

ME: “Ha!ha!ha!” (I started laughing loud)

Her:(Little disarmed)

Me: Do you have electricity?

Her: no….(cracks up)….I really don’t check e- mail.

Me: Listen girl….imagine the worst case scenario…(do as mentioned in you DD book) …..I just want to make friends with a DRUG DEALER.

Her: Okay…here is my e-mail.

TOTAL TIME – 3 minutes and 16 seconds to get her e-mail – yes i timed it.

We have exchanged e-mails back and forth now. She even asked me to come to her place to go partying/dancing.

I replied back saying: “What?? I don’t even know you and u want me already? Sorry I am not that easy. Whatever happened to the good old days when ladies invite guys for coffee first?”

She is special (she is awesome and seems to have good personal qualities). Problem is she lives four hours away – how do I go about doing this long distance thing? I told her to come on down to my town. Provided she has personality that matches her looks – I think she would be worth my time and I would drive 4hrs to see her.

-A.

Response from David Deangelo, author of “Double Your Dating”

I know, isn’t it great that this stuff actually works?

By the way, nice touch asking the pharmacy school gal if she’s a drug dealer.

This is a great example of EXACTLY what to do when you meet a girl. Read it again.

And as for the driving 4 hours thing… In the 4 hours of driving EACH WAY, you could probably go out and meet several other nice young ladies that are a bit closer. Maybe she loves to drive?

I just wanted to say I LOVE YOU MAN! for emphasizing the COCKY AND FUNNY philosophy. I’ve recently tried out this Internet dating thing and man I’m telling you that I turned up the volume to the max on being “cocky and funny” towards the cutest chicks on the web. Let me tell you man that my profile reads like a d*ckhead who can be hilarious at the same time wrote this stuff. I would say things like I got “abs” and sh*t, and that I only date girls with pretty faces and who have cute feet and straight teeth; that I like to party and have fun and look good doing it and that my weakness is that I can be an a**hole sometimes but give me one reason to change? You would not believe the response so far. I’ll keep you posted.

Keep up the good advice.

V.

Response from David Deangelo, author of “Double Your Dating”

lol… You just gotta love guys who take things to the limit, huh? I think you’re starting to get it… lol.