Attract More Women Today: 5 Crucial Tips

Here are so more tips that will help you out with your real life game…

1. How’s this for common sense? GO TO THE GYM!  Keep fit and healthy.  Not only will you look better, but you’ll be more confident
   and just generally feel better.
2. Go shopping with somebody who knows how to dress… PROPERLY!  Sure, everyone has their own unique style.  And I’m not saying you have to dress up in funny-looking hats and paint your fingernails black to “peacock”… but wear something NICE. Go shopping with a friend that has great style.  Or, even better, bring a girl along with you.
3. Get a tan.
4. STAND UP STRAIGHT!  Body language, body language, body language!  It is said that 93% of all communication is non-verbal. That’s right.  A massive portion of your game has to do with how your physical body communicates.
5. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again! Learn from someone who KNOWS THEIR STUFF.

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10 Things You Need To Watch in a Woman’s Arms and Torso

Reading a Woman’s Body Language – Torso and Arms

In addition to reading a woman’s head and face for attraction signals, you can tell a lot about how a woman is feeling (and if she is attracted to you) by what she does with her torso and arms.

How to read a Woman’s Arms and Torso

A woman may be attracted to you if:

1. She drops any physical barriers that were present between you and her. For example, her arms held across her body or drink held in front of her chest.
2. She strokes the back of one of her hands with the other, drawing attention to her soft skin and the idea of caressing it.
3. When she makes gestures with her hands, they move in close to you for a moment, perhaps even touching you briefly.
4. She pulls her upper arms tight in to the sides of her breasts, making them look fuller and more pert.
5. While you talk, she rests one of her elbows in the palm of her hand while holding her other hand palm-up.
6. She gently encircles one of her wrists with her hand and glides it up and down her arm.
7. She exposes one or both of her wrists to you. This indicates that she recognizes and likes your dominant presence and shows that she’s happy being submissive to you.
8. She sits with her torso facing in your direction with good posture, not slumping.
9. She fingers and plays with her jewelry, especially her necklace.
10. She touches your hand, shoulder or thigh while talking to you.

Go on to the next in this series on reading women’s body language, or check out the more thorough and comprehensive techniques, theories and tactics in Black Belt Seduction

How To Know If a Woman Is Attracted to You

Is She Into Me?

“How do I know if a woman is attracted to me?”

This question is a little bit slippery, so we need to break it down a bit. The question can mean a few different things, depending on who the word ‘she’ is referring to and what kind of ‘attraction’ you’re wondering about. For example, this question could be asked about the following scenarios and produce three very different answers on whether or not a woman is attracted to you.

1. I’ve been married to my wife for twenty years. Is she attracted to me?
2. There’s a girl in my biology class who I talk to quite a lot. Is she attracted to me?
3. I’ve just started a conversation with three girls. 2 minutes have passed, is the one of the left attracted to me?

Today we’ll mostly focus on the kind of scenario described number three. In a way, this kind of scenario is the purest you can get. The women have only just met you. They have no preconceptions of what you’ll be like—no one has told them about you. They can only judge you based on what you look like and what you say and do. this situation, how can you determine whether or not a woman is attracted you?

Main signs of female attraction

• Lots of extended smiling
• Giggling
• Looking up at you, tilting her chin down
• Moving closer to you
• Teasing you to see how you’ll react and to get you to tease her back
• Touching you in any way

Here are the detailed things to look for:

• Head and Face
• Arms and Torso
• Legs and Feet
• Voice/Speech

General/Behavioural Changes

• She moves in closer to you so that your bodies are less than 12 inches apart.
• She mirrors your actions a moment after you’ve made them. For example, by taking a sip of her drink just after you take sip of yours.
• She uses flirtier language and smiles in a mischievous way at you (women will only tend to do this if you yourself are flirty).
• Your gut tells you she is enjoying your company and is attracted to you. Trust your gut if it’s giving you this impression – the chances are that you HAVE been picking up on positive signs from the female and that they are good indicators that she’s sexually attracted to you.

Remember that no woman will ever give you all of the signals and signs listed here (imagine how much she’d be doing with her arms, legs and head!) Instead, you’ll notice a few of them. For example, exposed wrists, a tilted head and lots of words that signal agreement with what you’re saying. You’ll develop your attraction-detection ability over time, but when you’re just starting out, focus on just a few of them.

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