What to put in your online dating profile
Like I’ve said many times before… There’s definitely no shortage of men out there that have HORRID profiles.
Creepy pictures, using terrible language in their profiles,and other massive blunders that kill their chances at meeting QUALITY women. I mean, what’s 10 minutes of good work worth inyour profile?
Ask these guys…
“Before I used your profile optimization methods,I would never, ever get any messages from women. None of them ever really approached me online! But after just 15 minutes of a little ‘work’, I’ve been regularly receiving e-mails from women. YOUR STUFF JUST PLAIN WORKS.”
– Erik Sorenson (dirkph@hotmail.com)
“At first I thought… what the HELL are these changes going to make? It didn’t hurt to try them, I guess… Then I put in the 10 minutes to optimize my profile using Derek Lamont’s methods. The result? I’ve been getting more random messages AND women are DEFINITELY more welcoming when I message them. 
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- Gary Borland, Toronto, Ontario
Here’s Derek Lamont’s Response:
In the last lesson, we went over some key points to help you succeed with your instant-messaging game. Today, I’m going to go over another important aspect of your online profile… your profile content.
I’m basically referring to those little boxes in your profile that lists your interests, hobbies, or anything about you.
Let me first tell you about one of my friends who just recently took up online dating…
I gave him some basic tips… nothing too extraordinary… and he started making a profile. He messaged three good-looking girls and got three messages back.
The good thing is… at least he got replies. I was shocked! I thought he wasn’t even going to get that far. The bad thing is… the girls didn’t seem all that terribly interested in him. They didn’t ask him many questions in the replies…
Two girls definitely tried to reciprocate interest, and the other did not at all.
So he asked for my help. I took a quick glance at his profile and shook my head.
“Dude, totally wrong. Take this *#(& off right now! There are three things wrong with this profile. I’ll tell you one of them.” I said to him…
What to put in your online dating profile
I told him that he was giving away way too much information in his profile content – something that you should avoid too.
He was basically listing almost everything about him… everything that had to do with his job, how many tattoos he had, all the places he’s been in his life… he put down everything.
Let’s look at his profile from a female perspective. First of all, she has so much crap to read that she doesn’t even care about! The details, although they might be interesting, are not to be put on the profile content section.
Why?
It’s far too redundant to read in this context. It may be appropriate for a phone conversation or real-life conversation, but on the internet… people want concise information.
The fact that he wrote about his tattoos wasn’t THAT bad… but he just went into disgusting detail… no one needed to know that he has a tattoo on his “upper back,” his “lower abdominal region,” and his “left pinky-toe.” (Okay, I’m exaggerating a bit here, but you get the drift… just too much detail!)
People just simply don’t care about that type of detail at this point…
Not only that, but it simply just kills one of the most important aspects of picking up women…
MYSTERY!
Some men just ruin their chances by giving away way too much and not creating a sufficient level of mystery that keeps women interested.
You also eliminate the opportunity for small-talk by giving away too much small-talk information. This is what my friend really did wrong here… he eliminated any amount of small talk that women just seem to love.
I’m talking about questions like…
So what do you do? Have any tattoos? So where have you travelled to? What are you taking in school? What kind of hobbies do you enjoy?
Well, if he addressed all of those issues, there isn’t much of a point in asking those questions, is there?
There is a certain way to tell your information in such a way that it doesn’t destroy the “allure”… the “enigma”… the “mystery.”
I go over all of those techniques in my #1 selling program, The Online Game: Internet Attraction System In it, I basically cover all the key steps for creating the aforementioned mystery and allure…
I’ll also share with you some secret psychological measures that you can easily employ in your profile that basically tell women to respond to you and show interest.
Don’t make the same mistakes all the other guys do on online dating and social networking websites and gain the edge!
Keep an eye out for my next lesson that should be released in the next few days… you won’t want to miss it – I’ll cover some really juicy tips to get those women you want in bed.
