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Some Great Basic Opening Routines

Once you have the confidence to APPROACH a girl/s the first thing you have to do to attract women is to “open” them.

Opening is NOT built to attract, it’s simply to OPEN conversation and allow you to start demonstrating attractive qualities about yourself and flipping “mental attraction triggers” in their minds.
This “attraction trigger” flipping is done by the way of pre-practiced ROUTINES.

Yes, you go into every approach knowing EXACTLY what you’re going to say and how you’re going to steer the conversation – just like a stand up comic would.

YOU will have the control.

The approach WILL change, but you’ll have routines you can use to adapt to any situation.

Some guys say, well, if I’m using routines, is that really jusybeing me?

Well, of course it is, because they become YOUR routines… and they are only there to give you the greatest chance of being able to build enough attraction to be able to “freestyle” with the girl you just met… and just be yourself.

Here’s a few simple but effective openers

Remember, these are NOT built to attract, they are there to OPEN.

1. “Hey, can I get your opinion on something?“
2. “Oh my god, you look just like this girl I knew from high school“

Openers can be as short and simple or long as you want them to be as long as they open effectively. For dozens and dozens of TRIED and TESTED openers that have VERY high success ratios, check out the first few belts of the course.

Here’s an example of a slightly longer, more complicated opener from Mr. M.

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The ‘Do me a favour!’ opener for attracting women If you can get a girl to do you a favor, you automatically create a connection between you and her.

As soon as she agrees to help you out, she’s obligated to spendingtime doing something connected to YOU.

You need to choose the favor carefully though. Too big and there’s a chance she’ll say no.

Too small and she’ll be able to complete it quickly and therefore forget about you quickly too.

Here’s a good one you can use:

Walk up to a girl or a couple of girls who are talking to each other and say,

“Hi. Could you do me a favour?” Don’t give them time to respond to this, just continue by saying, “I’ve got a problem with this phone (hold a cell phone in your hand). I need to test it. Could one of you hold it for a minute, I’ll go over there and call you.”

Chances are at this point they’ll be interested but still a little unsure of you and what you’re suggesting. So smile
and with a real air of confidence, say, “It’s okay. It’ll be fun! What’s your name?”

Once they’ve agreed to help you out, move away from them so you’re out of sight, around the corner or something. If you’re at all worried about the safety of your cellphone in their hands, get a wingman (a buddy of yours) to keep an eye on them from a distance.

He can also watch to see what they say once you’re out of sight and then report back to you a little later. When you’re out of sight, don’t call them for at least 3 full minutes.

This will seem like an eternity to them.

They won’t know why you haven’t called.

Is the phone broken? Have you tried calling yet? What type of guy leaves his phone with some girls he doesn’t know?!

All they’ll be thinking about will be YOU and the situation they’re in with you.

After 3 or 5 minutes, call the phone they’re holding for you using a wingman’s cell. It’s up to you what you say, but be playful.

After chatting to them for a minute or two, go back to see them and quiz them on how it sounded and if the call went through okay.

The advantages of this opener are plenty. It’s fun, different and unusual.

The girl or girls interact with you three times in this opener. First when you approach them and ask the favour, second
when you call and speak to them (a nice touch is asking the one who answers to put her friend on the line after 30 seconds and then playing with both of them, being flirty etc.), and third when you go back to them at the end.

That’s three times the impact of any other conventional opener and guaranteed to be different enough that they won’t see it coming as a “pickup”.

Now go straight into some routines. Simple…

Get more openers and more effective, advanced routines in Black Belt Seduction by Matthew William Sharpe

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Source: Black Belt Seduction Crash Course

The first in our 20 Methods You can Use to Attract Women series.

Man whispering to Woman

That’s a good question. There is no official place to ‘start’ because not all men are the same. If every man was equally inept in certain areas and equally skilled in the rest, then we could have a nice clear starting point, middle point and ending point—but they aren’t and we can’t. This crash course is probably the best place to start because it gives you a little bit of information on a lot of different areas. These areas, of course, have been selected because they feature in the list of questions most men have when they’re just starting out this game.They’re  the core topics, if you like. But how about some more specific instructions, aside from working your way through this course. Let’s have a look.

Get your style and appearance up to scratch

There’s no point disadvantaging yourself from the outset. It’s important you exhibit up-to-date style in the way you dress and generally present yourself. You don’t have to be one of these straight-off-the-catwalk types, or a guy who spends more time staring in the mirror than the women he’s hoping to attract; just make sure you’re presenting your physical self in the best light possible. Look in the store windows of popular male fashion outlets, take a look in some men’s magazines and look at the styles and dress-sense of men who already appear to be successful in the dating game. There are some rights and wrongs (choosing ugly shoes, wearing garish colors, wearing sunglasses indoors, having a goofy haircut, etc.), but you don’t have to worry too much about pulling off a specific image—develop your own style based on trends that you know are currently attractive and representative of a socially-intelligent guy.

Start going-out a lot

You might hate trying to meet women in nightclubs, or nightclubs might be your favorite places to hang out and socialize. Either way, by going to nightclubs and bars regularly, you effectively develop and hone your social skills. You get used to being around groups of people (who you’ll sooner or later be approaching and talking to) and you generally get to feel comfortable in that environment.

Learn the most basic principles and arm yourself with a couple of choice tools

You’ll probably read this whole course before starting to go out there and make some approaches, but nevertheless at this early point in your journey, you should make sure you learn the most basic principles WELL and choose a couple of techniques you can rely on to help you get through your first approaches and conversations. For learn the most basic and useful principles, you should refer to the following sections of this crash course.

WHAT IS VALUE AND HOW DO I POSSESS IT?

WHAT IS ATTRACTIVE MALE BODY LANGUAGE?

HOW DO I BEAT APPROACH ANXIETY?

HOW DO I INVENT MY OWN OPENERS?

HOW DO I KEEP CONVERSATION FLOWING?

Click any of those titles to jump to the relevant topic.

With just those basic pieces of knowledge under your belt, you’ll be ready to start practising being ‘pickup artist’.

Once you know about value and attractive male and body language, you’ll be attractive to a lot of women. Once you’ve started to remove your approach anxiety, you’ll be able to go up to a group of women and start talking to them without too much fear. Once you know how to invent your own openers, you’ll be able to turn your approaches into conversations that last more than 60 seconds and which have the potential to turn into attraction-based interactions. And, finally, once you know how keep conversation flowing you’ll…well…you’ll be set. Those topics will give you a basic skill-set and THAT is where you should start.

-From author Matthew William Sharpe , Black Belt Seduction

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