Why The First 20 Seconds are Most Important when Meeting a Woman
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First Impressions with women: The Initial 20 Seconds make ALL the difference.
Here’s how to make the absolute best impression on a girl you’re trying to attract.
We all know about first impressions and how important they are if we want the person we’re meeting to like us.
You should always remember that first impressions formed when trying to attract, are very different to those made at other times and in other social situations, like job interviews.
When you utter your first word to a woman, a clock begins to tick.
20 seconds later an impression has been formed that, although not impossible to change or correct, is cemented in the female’s mind.
Female first impressions of you consist of two things. First, how much the girl likes you. Things like confidence, physical appearance, social proficiency (how well you handle conversation, etc.) are all factored into this first component of the first impression.
The second component is what your intentions are, or what the girl guesses your intentions are – these can be two very different things, but either way your chances with the girl can be destroyed if she perceives your intentions to be anything but likeable and attractive to her.
So, always bear in mind that during the first 20 seconds or so of meeting a girl you need to focus on appearing more attractive and confident than at any other time during your conversation with her.
You also need to ensure you don’t come on too strong and give her too much attention, because doing so could make her think you’re trying to pick her up, which in a girl’s mind is almost always a negative thing.
If you get the first 20 seconds RIGHT, then your chances of successfully making a connection with your target are increased up to 86% (according to our in-field tests).
What Should You Do in the First 20 Seconds?
- Use an direct or indirect opener.
- Introduce a false “reason to leave in a second” to relieve pressure on the target group.
- Use correct body language for the circumstances (alpha, friendly, open etc)
- Start pre-built conversation routine…
And we’re at 20 seconds… And you’ve opened the group.
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