What Annoys Women and Attracts Them

What Annoys Women, AND What Attracts Them

Article by David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating

If you listen to women talk about men, you’ll often hear them use the word “ANNOYING” to describe certain men and certain things that some men DO.

Now, as you can probably guess, it’s not usually a good thing when a woman uses this particular word to describe a guy…

And, as you can ALSO probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word, it’s not usually about guys who she is ATTRACTED to (although this isn’t always true).

Now, it’s taken me a few years of paying attention to really get a handle on what women are talking about when they say, “He’s annoying” or “It’s so annoying when he does that”.

And guess what I realized was at the ROOT of women finding a guy or his behavior annoying?

IT’S ALMOST ALWAYS WUSSY BEHAVIOR!

AHHHH!

THINGS THAT ANNOY WOMEN…

Here are some of the things that many women consider to be “annoying”:

• Calling her too often
• Telling her that you have “feelings” for her too early
• Giving away your power to her and making her the boss
• Always asking a woman what she wants instead of leading
• Acting submissive and weak
• Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative requests
• Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside

“WHAT?” you say.

“HOW COULD THIS BE?”… you might be thinking.

How is it possible that demonstrating your affection for a woman by calling her, telling her how you feel, letting her make the decisions, and putting her first could be considered ANNOYING, of all things?

Well guess what?

IT IS.

Women, and ESPECIALLY the most ATTRACTIVE and desirable women, usually consider the above things to be VERY annoying.

Of course, the reason for this is because no matter how good these kinds of behaviors seem on the surface, there’s only one conclusion that can be drawn from them:

THE MAN DOING THEM IS A BONAFIDE, 100% CERTIFIABLE WUSSY!

AND WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

NEVER.

Now, do I really, really, REALLY mean that women are NEVER, EVER attracted to Wussies?

I mean, isn’t that an over- generalization?

Nothing is always true, right?

Well, this one IS.

Actually, what I MEAN is…

As far as generalizations go, this particular one is as close to being true all the time as they get.

And just in case I haven’t said this enough, let me say it one more time… just to make sure it’s clear:

WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

So now you understand why all of the “nice” things that you’ve done for women seem to always result in the woman pulling away.

It’s because she finds your nice-guy “Wuss” behaviors to be ANNOYING.

AND IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE…

To further confuse things, you’ll often hear a woman say something to the effect of…

“I want a STRONG guy who is also SENSITIVE…”

…or…

“He needs to have his own life, his own interests, and his own friends, but also be totally focused on me…”

I see things like this in women’s personal ads all the time. I’m sure you’ve seen things like this yourself.

Women often talk about wanting a combination of things in a man that just don’t seem to fit…

So what’s going on here?

Are women crazy? (Yes.)

But seriously, what are they talking about?

How is it that women seem to always talk about wanting men who have these qualities that don’t fit together?

I know that I personally used to hear this stuff and then say to myself “OK, well I’ve got the sensitive part covered so I guess I need to start acting a little bit stronger.”

I thought that maybe this came down to getting my lazy ass to the gym and working out. You know, to become “stronger”.

No, I’m serious.

Well, here’s the BIG REALIZATION that I had…

I’ve now realized that I had it all wrong.

Instead of thinking to myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little stronger, what I really needed was to become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on occasion.

The difference seems almost like word-play, but it’s not. Not at all.

You see, when a woman says that she wants a “strong guy who’s also sensitive”, that’s what she MEANS.

She wants a guy who’s STRONG. The sensitive part is far more “optional” than the STRONG part.

This is why women often date jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don’t date us “nice guys” who would do anything for them.

Remember, ATTRACTION ISN’T A CHOICE.

Women do not sit down and make a list of the qualities that a particular guy has, then think it over it for a few days, then DECIDE whether or not to FEEL ATTRACTION.

NO WAY.

It happens in an INSTANT, and it happens for all kinds of “illogical” reasons… reasons that even the woman who is feeling it can’t usually describe.

So what’s the answer here?

Before I tell you… if you are reading these words I’m saying, and you’re thinking to yourself “Yes! This is my problem!” then I want you to go DIRECTLY to this link before you read any further:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan

The answer here is to realize that many of the things you do when you’re around women that you feel attracted to, are considered ANNOYING by those women.

You must understand that you sometimes have to do things that SEEM to be “inconsiderate” in order to give a woman what she REALLY wants (which is a man who is in control of himself, the situation, and often her).

Raise your right hand, and repeat after me…

• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”
• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”
• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”

Stop doing things that say “I’m a Wussy”, because those are the very things that women find ANNOYING.

And START doing the things that you’re learning here.

Lean back. Act Cocky & Funny around women. Bust on them and give them a hard time. And LEAD the way, don’t follow.

Now, one of the problems that a lot of guys run into is “putting together” different personality traits that don’t seem to go together.

Women say that they want guys who are funny… but also strong.

Many of the things women SAY they want seem like they CONFLICT with each other.

What’s a guy to do?

Well, THE FIRST thing a guy should do is learn what WORKS.

Not what SOUNDS like it might work.

Not what SHOULD work.

And not what is SUPPOSED to work.

LEARN WHAT WORKS.

I personally spent several years trying to figure out what “works”. Why did it take me so long?

Because, as it turns out, I started out with a HUGE disadvantage.

And I’m not talking about a disadvantage like a big nose (which I have).

I’m talking about a disadvantage like BAD PROGRAMMING.

I had a “map” in my mind… of how I thought I should behave around women… and it turned out to be THE WRONG MAP.

The most frustrating part was that when I did the things that SHOULD work, they made women UN-interested. It was as if the world wasn’t working right.

would be sweet and nice, and a woman would not want to talk to me.

I would call often and share my feelings with her, and she would fall for the rude jerk who could care less about treating her well.

Well, as you might already know, sometimes I’m a “glutton for punishment”.

Translation: I stuck with it anyway. I kept trying to figure out what works… even though the things I was doing WEREN’T working.

The magic “breakthrough” came ONLY after I started making friends with and watching guys who were VERY successful with women… then putting what I knew about psychology and behavior together with the NEW stuff I was learning “in the field”.

What I discovered was literally SHOCKING to me.

I can remember slapping myself on the forehead, shaking my noggin, and laughing to myself… as I watched some of my new friends who were good with women… doing things that just plain SHOULDN’T work… but that DID work.

Here’s one of the lessons I learned:

Body Language is more important than WORD language.

In fact, you can have the smoothest “pick up lines” in the world… but if you don’t understand Body Language, the woman you’re talking to CAN’T feel ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s another one:

Doing “nice” things for a woman doesn’t make her any more likely to feel ATTRACTION for you. In fact, most of these things BACKFIRE… and wind up pushing her AWAY.

Here’s a third lesson I learned:

Even though “jerks” and “bad boys” don’t treat women well, it doesn’t mean that women don’t feel ATTRACTION for them.

In fact, women often report feeling INCREDIBLY attracted to these kinds of men… so powerfully, in fact, that they can’t CONTROL these feelings…

As I was learning these interesting and “counter intuitive” lessons, I also began documenting the specific things that the guys who were “naturals” with women did… in order to attract women.

One of my BIGGEST realizations was that literally ANY guy can attract women… if he just understands how ATTRACTION works. And any guy can use the secrets that “jerks” and “bad boys” have discovered and used… WITHOUT being abusive or mean.

In fact, if you LEAVE OUT the meanness or abuse, a woman will be FAR more likely to STAY around.

Recently, I’ve released two educational programs that teach two very important aspects of how to attract women.

LANGUAGE alone.

The first one is called “Body Language For Success With Women And Dating”. In this program, I will show you how to transform yourself from a “nice, sweet, annoying WUSSY” into a guy who women feel ATTRACTION for… by transforming your BODYLike I said, if you don’t know how to use BODY LANGUAGE to communicate with and attract women, then the WORDS you say DON’T MATTER.

I want you to go right now and watch some video clips from this program HERE:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

The SECOND important program I’ve released recently is called “Cocky Comedy”. In this program

I, and my special guests, spend several hours teaching you how to master the technique that I like to call “Cocky & Funny”.

This is one of the interesting SECRET techniques that the guys who are NATURALLY good with women use.

It’s a special mix of humor and arrogance… that really switches on the “chemistry” with a woman.

There is no other program in the world like this one… and I’d like you to go and watch some of the preview video clips so you get the idea:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

Oh, and if you haven’t taken the time to download my latest eBook “Attraction Isn’t A Choice”, then you really need to go and do that immediately.

You can go and download it right now, and be reading it within a few minutes. Download it here: http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

Attract More Women Today: 5 Crucial Tips

Here are so more tips that will help you out with your real life game…

1. How’s this for common sense? GO TO THE GYM!  Keep fit and healthy.  Not only will you look better, but you’ll be more confident
   and just generally feel better.
2. Go shopping with somebody who knows how to dress… PROPERLY!  Sure, everyone has their own unique style.  And I’m not saying you have to dress up in funny-looking hats and paint your fingernails black to “peacock”… but wear something NICE. Go shopping with a friend that has great style.  Or, even better, bring a girl along with you.
3. Get a tan.
4. STAND UP STRAIGHT!  Body language, body language, body language!  It is said that 93% of all communication is non-verbal. That’s right.  A massive portion of your game has to do with how your physical body communicates.
5. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again! Learn from someone who KNOWS THEIR STUFF.

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Turn The Table on a Woman Playing Hard To Get

Women playing hard to get is very common in the dating game. There are many reasons why women like to play hard to get with men. They may do it just to create extra sparks in the relationship, or they are simply not interested in the men who are wooing them.

So how should you turn the table around when you meet a woman who plays hard to get with you?

The first thing that you must know is the reason behind why she plays hard to get with you. There will be different hints that you can catch which will give you the answer. For example, if you find that the reason that she is playing hard to get with you is because she does not like you at all, then you should not waste your time on her anymore. Move on.

But there are also some interesting reasons why women play hard to get with men. One of the interesting reasons could be that she is just trying to find out how determined or interested are you in getting her to be your girlfriend.

When a man gets something without much effort, he will probably not treasure it seriously. This is also one of the major factors why women want to make sure that this does not happen to them. If she is interested to get into a serious relationship with you, she will want to make sure that you are dead serious about her.

So for this case, what you can do is to show your sincerity and love for her. Make her feel that she is special and just not like any other girls that you will take as your girlfriend. Give yourself some time and prove it to her to see. Once she realizes it, she will stop playing hard to get with you and be more receptive towards you.

P.S. Do remember to click on the link below to download your
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Lower Your Standards: Don’t Limit Your Targets

Avoid limiting your female targets.

Lots of guys make the mistake of narrowing down their targets too much when they first start out playing the pick-up game.

They either choose to only talk to women they class as being between 5 and 7 on the ‘out of ten’ looks scale, or only go for women that are 8s and up. The former group of guys is still a little nervous about the prospect of talking to women they consider to be ‘out of the their league’ and the latter think that, as they now know how to pick-up women, they should restrict the girls they try to seduce to only the supremely beautiful and physically rare.

The best thing to do though is to keep your targets broad and not limit the girls you approach to one kind or category.

By approaching and talking to girls of varying beauty and social rarity, you increase your experience and boost your ability to adapt and prosper when talking to women in general.

Get Bigger and Better Tips from Black Belt Seduction

You Should Use Social Events To Meet Women

Pack Your Weekly Schedule With Social Activities and Experiences

By arranging as many social occasions per week for yourself as you can, you maximize your ability to pick-up women. This works in a secondary sense, as follows.

In one of my other tips I talk about you setting up “group” dates that you can invite a girl long to instead of setting up a potentially damaging one-on-one date involving just you and her. The more of these social gatherings and occasions you can arrange the better because the more you have in your schedule, the more of them you can use as:

1. “Group” dates, as in one of my previous tips.
2. Times to practice your pick-up skills on women you meet for the first time during these events and occasions.
3. Methods of gaining a healthy perspective on the pick-up game. You don’t want the goal of picking up women to become and be noticeable as your main, unchanging focus in life. If women you meet think it is, your chances of attracting them will be all but demolished. Instead, you should keep a busy social calendar and fit your interactions with women you want to attract around it.

Another tip soon Ben.

Ms. T.
NOTE: Getting out more is a quick way to MEET more women, if you have the guts to speak to them… For a list of the best 26 places you can go to meet women that most other guys don’t realize – NOT bars and NOT clubs – but places where competition from other men is MUCH lower, and quality of women is much HIGHER check out:

http://www.blackbeltseduction.com/home.php

3 Reasons That Women Play Hard To Get

I’m going to share with you on why women love to play hard to get…

Women are hard to understand, and do not even think of guessing what are they thinking about. Trust me, you will go crazy. I know it is hard to take when a woman that you are so eagerly wooing is playing hard to get with you, and you do not know why she does that.

Sometimes, the things women do when in relationships are out of this world, at least not for us men to understand. A man might think that when a woman plays hard to get with him, she is just playing a time game with them and eventually will accept him… But is it true all the times? Or is she simply just not interested?

There are just too many reasons and possibilities that make women play hard to get with men during relationships.

Reasons Why Women Play Hard to Get

1. Women do not want to be seem as easy targets.
2. Women want men to treasure them more when they finally get together.
3. Women are simply not interested in a relationships or the men.

So when you happen to meet a girl who plays hard to get with you in the future, try to recall what are some common reasons why she does this. Then what you can do is to play to the situation. But please do not turn into a needy wuss who begs her to be together with you, it will only turn her off.

Instead have some dignity and confidence in yourself, and prepare to walk away if you feel that nothing can work out from the both of you.

Continue to live your own life and go out to meet more women. This will make her realize that your life does not only evolves around her.

To Your Success With Women,

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View Crid Lee’s 29 Ways

Click above to check out Crid’s online guide on why women play hard to get, and wasy you can use to make it easy to attract them.

Slow Your Speech To Pick Up More Chicks

Be calm and relaxed when you talk!

Today’s tip is about speech speed.

When you talk to women, make sure you don’t speak too quickly or too slowly.

Rushing through your words makes you look scared that you’ll lose the girl’s interest, while speaking too slowly can indicate that you’re unsure of what you’re saying and worried she’ll judge you for saying the wrong things.

So, just focus on speaking at your regular speed, just as you do with your male friends.

When you successfully do this, you demonstrate to women that their presence and/or beauty doesn’t affect you or the way you think.

You’re independent and self-secure. And THAT’S what they ultimately find sexually attractive.

Get more advanced tips like this one from Ms. T @ Black Belt Seduction

The Online Game – Internet Attraction System Review

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- Michael Chang – Toronto, ON

“I’m an experienced online dater but never had any success before using your techniques. Now? I can pretty much setup a date anytime I want. This is just absolutely tremendous… I wish I had found your system 10 years ago!”

- Shawn Antonissan – Seattle, WA

“I Am Already An Experienced Pickup Artist…”

“I am already an experienced pickup artist – I’ve been a student of Mystery, David D., Swinggcat, and more…

But I have to tell you this story, Derek! This is too amazing. I met this stupidly hot girl on Facebook last week… and we finally set up a date to meet last night. When I met her she was ALREADY attracted to me. She literally almost wanted to undress me and go at it right then and there. How is this possible?? You really have topped all the other so-called ‘online dating’ programs that are just pure garbage compared to your technique.”

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“You’d honestly have to be absolutely crazy to NOT try this system. I have several women as we speak WANTING to meet me so badly after just sending them a few messages on the Plenty of Fish dating site! Your steps are so easy to follow and I do agree – any guy can use it right now.

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Women Will Always Play Hard to Get

People have been searching for dating tips on the Internet.  So what exactly are the tips for dating that they are looking for? There are countless of tips on the Internet that solve dating problems. Let me just share with you what you can do when women play hard to get with you:
Firstly, you must understand that women will always play hard to get with men to a certain extent. Yes, there are some women who really over-do it. Usually, for those who have some interest in you, as long as you have a little bit of knowledge on why they play they play hard to get and using the right techniques to counter them, you should be able to turn the table around against them successfully.
That is why it is so important to know what are the possible reasons why a woman plays hard to get with you. There is no point guessing why she does this and that, because women are from the other planet. Men will not be able to understand exactly what they are thinking with some plain guessing. It will only make us go mad.

When you know the possible reasons behind why she plays hard to get with you, you will be able to judge the situation based on your logical thinking. From there, you will then be able to think clearly on how you can use the right strategy or technique so that she will not play hard to get with you anymore!

Once you understand the reasons why, the ball is on your court.

Once you understand the reasons why, the ball is on your court. You can either continue to play with them, or simply give them what they want so as to stop the game and really get together.

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How to Stay In Control of a Woman

Staying In Control of a Girl

Stay In Control of a Woman

Be careful not to stick around for too long when talking to girls. You need to keep them on their feet, wondering whether or not you even like them sexually.

So, if a conversation with a hot girl starts to dry up and you feel it’s easier to walk away and talk to someone else, that’s what you should do.

It shows that you’re socially intelligent and not just focussing on her and her social needs.

Later on, when you talk to the hot girl again, her opinion of you – as a confident, dynamic guy – will have been reinforced by your earlier departure. As a result, she’ll now feel more attracted to you and the idea of talking to you again.

IMPORTANT NOTE:

Attraction isn’t JUST about saying the right things, it’s about DOING the right things…

Often the right things for the right situation involve doing something that is totally counter-intuitive.

In fact, often whatever your head is telling you to do, you should DO THE OPPOSITE… Most guys do the SAME things with women and when a guy comes along who does the opposite of what she expects, she gets a deep surge of attraction – as long as what you are doing are the RIGHT counter intuitive things… For exactly what do say and do, and more importantly what not to say and do – to seem – spontaneous and somehow “different” from those other guys, check out: Free Seduction Guide.

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