How You Can Instantly Get A Woman’s Attention
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Previously we went over the importance of openers.
Basically, before you start ANY conversation with women, you have to OPEN the conversation (unless they open you – and yes there are LOTS of ways to get women to approach and open you but we’ll go into them some other time).
Yesterday I gave you a few examples of openers. In this post there’s another powerful opener from Mr. M.
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How to instantly get a woman’s attention and sexually attract her using the ‘OH!’ opener.
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Most men have the same problems when trying to start conversations with women. Here they are:
- The woman knows they’re coming on to her and is therefore trying to avoid talking to them from the outset
- The man’s opener (the way he starts the conversation) sounds rehearsed or manufactured.
- What the man says isn’t interesting or engaging. Take this opener, for example.
It’s the kind of thing lots of guys might say to a woman they want to talk to and–fingers crossed–attract.
“Hi, do you have the time?”
This opener is weak for three reasons.
- The man says hi. This is a useless word that serves no real purpose.
- He asks her for the time. This is a standard, boring, everyday thing you could ask a bus driver or a
bum. - It contains no emotion and it feels like the only reason you’re saying it is for your own selfish reason.
Now let’s look at the exact opposite: an opener that is spontaneous, interesting and full of emotion.
It’s called the ‘OH!’ opener because that’s the first word, or sound, you use when you start a conversation with a woman you want to talk to and attract. Here’s how.
You’re in close proximity to a girl or group of girls. Say you’re standing three feet away, with a couple of your friends.
You need to turn your head, but not your body.
Look at one of the girls–preferably not the one you primarily want to attract–and say, quite loudly, ‘OH!’.
This will immediately get their attention.
Keep your body facing pretty much away from the girls.
Once you see that you’ve got their attention, follow up with something interesting and engaging. Try not to make it too short, otherwise they’ll reply with a short response, which could kill the conversation before it has a chance to get started.
Something like this works well. “OH!” (The girls turn around).
“Did you guys see those lights too last night?”
They’ll ALWAYS ask, “What lights?”
Bang, you’re in.
You turn your body towards them a bit more.
“About nine o’clock last night, right above the skyline towards [name a local landmark].”
They’ll of course say no. But they’re intrigued now.
Turn towards them properly now.
You can now transition into talking to them normally, because you have approval from them. They’ve responded to two questions and asked one of their own. You now start to talk about what everyone’s talking about: was it a UFO that people saw? Do they believe in UFOs? Have they ever seen anything weird, like a UFO? Etc. It doesn’t need to be a LONG conversation about UFO’s…
In fact it’s best if it’s short, snappy and then you go into another routine just like you would if you were talking to a group of friends you’ve known for years.
The ‘OH!’ opener is perfect for opening conversations with women because it can be adapted so easily.
You can alter how you say ‘OH!’ to match what you’re going to say next. You can make it an ‘I just remembered something…’ OH or a long ‘I just realized something’ OH.
You can even say, ‘OH, sorry!’ Then go right into something else.
The power of the OH! opener is that it sounds andseems spontaneous. It’s like you’ve just had this sudden thought you want to share with someone. It also gives the strong impression it’s about to be followed by something new, interesting and
engaging. Women love this…