How to Meet Women During the Day

How do I meet and attract women during the day?

Girl in Public

The 17th in our 20 Methods You can Use to Attract Women series.

Daytime game is truly a challenge for even the seasoned pickup artist. Here’s why:

• At night time, people who are in public are invariably relaxing and socialising. The fact that they are socialising makes it easier for you to approach them and introduce yourself. In the day time, this isn’t the case.
• During the day, women tend to be by themselves. There’s a risk here of sounding like we’re talking about hunting women like prey—we are not. It’s just the case that women out and about during the day are usually by themselves. This can make approaching and talking to them
• During the day, most of us have to do more; we’re at work, we’re shopping; we’re going from one place to another
• At night, people are in one venue and they stay in there for a while. The fact that people are on the move during the day means that meeting women during the day can be harder.

Those are the main reasons approaching women during the day can be more challenging than interacting with them night. So! What can we do about that? First of all, you need to adapt to the different environment by following slightly different rules concerning how you approach and open. They are:

• In a club, you can walk up to a group of women and open using a pretty flirty and controversial comment or question. If you do this during the daytime to one woman, you risk her thinking you’re crazy. You need to tone it down a notch. When you open, use slightly less energy than you
  would in a club—after all, it takes nowhere near as much volume or energy to get a woman’s attention in the street as it does to get a group’s attention in a loud club.
• A safe bet when making approaches in the street is to use a situational opener. A situational opener is one which relates to the environment and situation you and the woman are both in at that time. By using a situational opener, you immediately establish some common ground between you and the woman: your surroundings. For example: “I don’t hang around here that much, is it always this busy?” That’s a pretty vanilla opener, but that’s a good thing: it won’t scare the woman away. She will feel like she’s an expert being asked for her opinion in this case. “Yeah, pretty much. I think it’s because there are lots of places to eat around here.” You can then transition into a very short story relating to what she has just said. “Yeah! I saw this guy walk out of a little bar just down there and he was staggering about the place like he was going to explode. Then he puked all over the sidewalk. It splashed up on this old lady’s shoes and the look she gave him was priceless.” This very short, unusual anecdote (try to make yours based on truth) catches the woman’s attention. It isn’t boring, it’s funny and rare. She can’t help but comment on it and tell you that not all people around this area are like that. “You’re not drunk right now are you?” “Aha ha! No way,” she laughs.
• You need to use your common sense when making approaches on the street. If a woman is walking in the opposite direction to you, it’s going to be very difficult to stop her and start a conversation without her thinking “Why is this guy stopping me? What does he want? I need to be somewhere in 5 minutes.” So don’t attempt this kind of challenge without first developing some pretty fine skills at daytime approaches.
• The more static a woman is during the day, the easier she’ll be to talk to and attract. A woman working at the deli counter of your supermarket is a hundred times easier to charm than a woman on the move.

That’s a start. Make sure your body language is solid and your conversational skills are well developed before attempting day time approaches—especially if you dislike the idea of getting shot down, either metaphorically or actually. Use your head, be polite and genuine and make sure you smile a lot.

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