Want to Turn a Friend into a Girlfriend?

Isn’t that the age-old problem?

Don’t you have that female friend who you wish was more than just a friend?

She probably comes to you with ALL her guy problems.  She probably asks you for advice ALL the time.

You constantly comfort her.  You’re there for her 24/7.

You do all in your power to impress her and show her that you care… and that you CAN be a good boyfriend.

But does she see you in that way?

If I’ve described you so far, then chances are… DEFINITELY NOT!

I’m sorry to break it to you.  But that’s just not the way to escalate that friendly relationship into SEXUAL DESIRE.

Sometimes building attraction is counter-intuitive… and many men… for the REST of their LIVES… will never know the RIGHT way of attracting a woman.

Isn’t that sad?  Many men, for their whole life, will never know the PROVEN FORMULA that turns on a girl’s attraction switch.

And the sad story is, these men will forever live with the women that they have to “settle for”.

Or worse, these men will DIE ALONE.

Are YOU going to be one of these men?

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How to Handle Phone Calls from Girls

How do I handle phone calls properly?

The 19th in our 20 Methods You can Use to Attract Women series.

It’s not possible to spend all your time physically with your new ‘prospect’—the woman you’ve attracted and, hopefully, had a Day 2 with. There are going to be lots of in-between times, when you’re not in each other’s company. It’s therefore important that you don’t let the positive dynamic between you and the woman go stale during these times, considering how lengthy and frequent they will be, especially towards the beginning of your relationship.

So, then, how do you handle phone calls and texts in the right way? How do you avoid coming off as
a loser who is pestering the woman for her attention?

Let’s start at the beginning. How should you handle the first phone call you ever make to her? It will probably occur either on the same day you meet her (making it about 5 hours after you meet her is good) or one or two days later. Here are some ground rules.

The phone call should:

• Be quick. It should NOT drag on any further than it needs to.
• Not be an attempt to arrange anything. This same-day call is NOT the call you’ll make to arrange your Day 2 with the girl. It serves a different purpose, which you’ll learn in a moment.
• Be fun, upbeat and flirty. The call must be a positive, enjoyable verbal interaction. It should flow easily and have something simple and straightforward as its subject matter.
• End on a cliff-hanger style comment. The call should end with you saying something quick that functions as a cliff-hanger style comment—something that makes the girl think, “I want to talk to him more!”
• Seem as much as possible that it’s justified in some way. The girl will subconsciously know that
  you’re calling because you want to speak to her, but you should still make the call seem as much like it has a real, justified purpose as possible. This way, you preserve your social value, while still getting to talk to her.

Here is an example call which follows all of the rules above. You call and get her answer phone. Or, if she picks up, you freestyle by pretending to be her doctor. She’ll laugh the whole time. “Oh, Hi. This professor John Mac….erm… Macaroni? We met earlier in Eden (insert the name of the real place you met). I’m just calling to give the results of your test. Erm, yes, here we are. Yeah, I’m afraid you’ve tested positive for a hairy back and you have a 40% percent chance of developing a mono-brow. The results for the explosive flatulence test havn’t come back yet, I’m afraid. I’ll get to you on that. No, seriously, though. This is John, I was calling to ask you something, but I’ll speak to you soon. Seya.” You say it in a clear and confident way without sounding like you’re trying hard impress her make her laugh. You’re relaxed it and you don’t string out the “This is about John, I was calling to ask you something, but I’ll speak to you soon. Seya” bit by umming and ahhing.  All of your phone calls should be free from tension. Make them last only as long as they need to and follow all the rules of good conversation that you follow during face-to-face talks, like demonstrating high social value, being funny without being outcome dependant, etc.

More advanced tips than this are available in the free Black Belt Seduction Crash CourseMatthew by William Sharpe

How to Meet Women During the Day

How do I meet and attract women during the day?

The 17th in our 20 Methods You can Use to Attract Women series.

Daytime game is truly a challenge for even the seasoned pickup artist. Here’s why:

• At night time, people who are in public are invariably relaxing and socialising. The fact that they are socialising makes it easier for you to approach them and introduce yourself. In the day time, this isn’t the case.
• During the day, women tend to be by themselves. There’s a risk here of sounding like we’re talking about hunting women like prey—we are not. It’s just the case that women out and about during the day are usually by themselves. This can make approaching and talking to them
• During the day, most of us have to do more; we’re at work, we’re shopping; we’re going from one place to another
• At night, people are in one venue and they stay in there for a while. The fact that people are on the move during the day means that meeting women during the day can be harder.

Those are the main reasons approaching women during the day can be more challenging than interacting with them night. So! What can we do about that? First of all, you need to adapt to the different environment by following slightly different rules concerning how you approach and open. They are:

• In a club, you can walk up to a group of women and open using a pretty flirty and controversial comment or question. If you do this during the daytime to one woman, you risk her thinking you’re crazy. You need to tone it down a notch. When you open, use slightly less energy than you
  would in a club—after all, it takes nowhere near as much volume or energy to get a woman’s attention in the street as it does to get a group’s attention in a loud club.
• A safe bet when making approaches in the street is to use a situational opener. A situational opener is one which relates to the environment and situation you and the woman are both in at that time. By using a situational opener, you immediately establish some common ground between you and the woman: your surroundings. For example: “I don’t hang around here that much, is it always this busy?” That’s a pretty vanilla opener, but that’s a good thing: it won’t scare the woman away. She will feel like she’s an expert being asked for her opinion in this case. “Yeah, pretty much. I think it’s because there are lots of places to eat around here.” You can then transition into a very short story relating to what she has just said. “Yeah! I saw this guy walk out of a little bar just down there and he was staggering about the place like he was going to explode. Then he puked all over the sidewalk. It splashed up on this old lady’s shoes and the look she gave him was priceless.” This very short, unusual anecdote (try to make yours based on truth) catches the woman’s attention. It isn’t boring, it’s funny and rare. She can’t help but comment on it and tell you that not all people around this area are like that. “You’re not drunk right now are you?” “Aha ha! No way,” she laughs.
• You need to use your common sense when making approaches on the street. If a woman is walking in the opposite direction to you, it’s going to be very difficult to stop her and start a conversation without her thinking “Why is this guy stopping me? What does he want? I need to be somewhere in 5 minutes.” So don’t attempt this kind of challenge without first developing some pretty fine skills at daytime approaches.
• The more static a woman is during the day, the easier she’ll be to talk to and attract. A woman working at the deli counter of your supermarket is a hundred times easier to charm than a woman on the move.

That’s a start. Make sure your body language is solid and your conversational skills are well developed before attempting day time approaches—especially if you dislike the idea of getting shot down, either metaphorically or actually. Use your head, be polite and genuine and make sure you smile a lot.

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