Birthday Pickup Routine

How To Find Out a Girl’s Birthday and Use It To Boost Her Feelings For You.

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With a little bit of skill, you can actually give yourself an early advantage when it comes to attracting and picking-up a girl you like.

You do this by conducting a little bit of “research”.

Let’s say you’re at a party. You see a girl you really like and want to get to know and notice that she has a couple of close female friends with her. You can always tell which girls are friends with your target – their body language and proximity to her make it screamingly obvious.

What you need to do now is wait for one of your target female’s friends to break away from her for a short while. Maybe one will go and get a drink over at the other side of the room or just wander across to another group of people. When you see something along these lines happen, move in and get talking to your target’s friend. Just play it like a normal conversation. Don’t worry about coming across as attractive or charming – this girl isn’t your target, after all.

The purpose of this little chat is to find out some personal information about your target, like her birthday or star sign – something you could never guess first time. Here’s how to get the info without it being obvious. Casually move onto the subject of birthdays with the target girl’s friend.

First ask her how old she is, act surprized when she tells you, then simplysay:

“So what’s your birthday?”

When she tells you, say you know someone with the same one.

This keeps the topic rolling and interesting. Next turn around and point over to where your target female is. She’ll no doubt be talking to someone so won’t be watching you. Say to the girl you’re talking to:

“So you and your friends are about the same age?”

Regardless of how she answers, very casually say back to her:

“Are you and your friend over there born in the same month. I bet you are!”

Chances are they won’t be and because you’ve said “I bet you are” the target’s friend will want to volunteer when her friend was born as roof they weren’t born in the same month. If she doesn’t straight away, just say:

“So what’s her birthday then if you weren’t born in the same month?”

When you’ve found out, remember it. Later on, when you talk to your actual target girl, you can play a game with her in which you “guess” her birthday, or pretend to be psychic, or do any number of other fun, flirty things with the information you have.

The point of using this technique is that it allows you to form a strong bond with your target female (because no other guy has or will ever be able to “know” her birthday without her telling him). This fast-forwards you through many of the usually slow and tricky seduction steps (sexual chemistry, comfort building, etc.) that all guys have to go through when picking-up women. She’ll feel like you’ve really “clicked” with each other.

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