Turning Around A Stale Relationship with Seduction Techniques

David,

I just wanted to give your book a plug to all the men out there who are currently involved in a long-term relationship and want to spicethings up. Using the techniques described in your book I completely turned around a 10 year relationship that had gone stale. We went from having sex 2-3 times a day in the first 6 months of the relationship to once or twice a MONTH in the last couple of years. After reading your book, I began the whole cocky/funny routine on my wife and stopped giving in to every little whim she had and…BAM! Just like that she was attracted again. She tried to pretend that she didn’t like the cockiness, but her actions showed how she really felt about it. We’re now back to 2-3 times a week and I’m loving life. Thanks buddy for a great education.

Response from David Deangelo, Author or “Double Your Dating” :

Can I just tell you how much I love gettingemails like this one? Hats off to you.

What Annoys Women and Attracts Them

What Annoys Women, AND What Attracts Them

Article by David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating

If you listen to women talk about men, you’ll often hear them use the word “ANNOYING” to describe certain men and certain things that some men DO.

Now, as you can probably guess, it’s not usually a good thing when a woman uses this particular word to describe a guy…

And, as you can ALSO probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word, it’s not usually about guys who she is ATTRACTED to (although this isn’t always true).

Now, it’s taken me a few years of paying attention to really get a handle on what women are talking about when they say, “He’s annoying” or “It’s so annoying when he does that”.

And guess what I realized was at the ROOT of women finding a guy or his behavior annoying?

IT’S ALMOST ALWAYS WUSSY BEHAVIOR!

AHHHH!

THINGS THAT ANNOY WOMEN…

Here are some of the things that many women consider to be “annoying”:

• Calling her too often
• Telling her that you have “feelings” for her too early
• Giving away your power to her and making her the boss
• Always asking a woman what she wants instead of leading
• Acting submissive and weak
• Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative requests
• Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside

“WHAT?” you say.

“HOW COULD THIS BE?”… you might be thinking.

How is it possible that demonstrating your affection for a woman by calling her, telling her how you feel, letting her make the decisions, and putting her first could be considered ANNOYING, of all things?

Well guess what?

IT IS.

Women, and ESPECIALLY the most ATTRACTIVE and desirable women, usually consider the above things to be VERY annoying.

Of course, the reason for this is because no matter how good these kinds of behaviors seem on the surface, there’s only one conclusion that can be drawn from them:

THE MAN DOING THEM IS A BONAFIDE, 100% CERTIFIABLE WUSSY!

AND WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

NEVER.

Now, do I really, really, REALLY mean that women are NEVER, EVER attracted to Wussies?

I mean, isn’t that an over- generalization?

Nothing is always true, right?

Well, this one IS.

Actually, what I MEAN is…

As far as generalizations go, this particular one is as close to being true all the time as they get.

And just in case I haven’t said this enough, let me say it one more time… just to make sure it’s clear:

WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

So now you understand why all of the “nice” things that you’ve done for women seem to always result in the woman pulling away.

It’s because she finds your nice-guy “Wuss” behaviors to be ANNOYING.

AND IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE…

To further confuse things, you’ll often hear a woman say something to the effect of…

“I want a STRONG guy who is also SENSITIVE…”

…or…

“He needs to have his own life, his own interests, and his own friends, but also be totally focused on me…”

I see things like this in women’s personal ads all the time. I’m sure you’ve seen things like this yourself.

Women often talk about wanting a combination of things in a man that just don’t seem to fit…

So what’s going on here?

Are women crazy? (Yes.)

But seriously, what are they talking about?

How is it that women seem to always talk about wanting men who have these qualities that don’t fit together?

I know that I personally used to hear this stuff and then say to myself “OK, well I’ve got the sensitive part covered so I guess I need to start acting a little bit stronger.”

I thought that maybe this came down to getting my lazy ass to the gym and working out. You know, to become “stronger”.

No, I’m serious.

Well, here’s the BIG REALIZATION that I had…

I’ve now realized that I had it all wrong.

Instead of thinking to myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little stronger, what I really needed was to become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on occasion.

The difference seems almost like word-play, but it’s not. Not at all.

You see, when a woman says that she wants a “strong guy who’s also sensitive”, that’s what she MEANS.

She wants a guy who’s STRONG. The sensitive part is far more “optional” than the STRONG part.

This is why women often date jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don’t date us “nice guys” who would do anything for them.

Remember, ATTRACTION ISN’T A CHOICE.

Women do not sit down and make a list of the qualities that a particular guy has, then think it over it for a few days, then DECIDE whether or not to FEEL ATTRACTION.

NO WAY.

It happens in an INSTANT, and it happens for all kinds of “illogical” reasons… reasons that even the woman who is feeling it can’t usually describe.

So what’s the answer here?

Before I tell you… if you are reading these words I’m saying, and you’re thinking to yourself “Yes! This is my problem!” then I want you to go DIRECTLY to this link before you read any further:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan

The answer here is to realize that many of the things you do when you’re around women that you feel attracted to, are considered ANNOYING by those women.

You must understand that you sometimes have to do things that SEEM to be “inconsiderate” in order to give a woman what she REALLY wants (which is a man who is in control of himself, the situation, and often her).

Raise your right hand, and repeat after me…

• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”
• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”
• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”

Stop doing things that say “I’m a Wussy”, because those are the very things that women find ANNOYING.

And START doing the things that you’re learning here.

Lean back. Act Cocky & Funny around women. Bust on them and give them a hard time. And LEAD the way, don’t follow.

Now, one of the problems that a lot of guys run into is “putting together” different personality traits that don’t seem to go together.

Women say that they want guys who are funny… but also strong.

Many of the things women SAY they want seem like they CONFLICT with each other.

What’s a guy to do?

Well, THE FIRST thing a guy should do is learn what WORKS.

Not what SOUNDS like it might work.

Not what SHOULD work.

And not what is SUPPOSED to work.

LEARN WHAT WORKS.

I personally spent several years trying to figure out what “works”. Why did it take me so long?

Because, as it turns out, I started out with a HUGE disadvantage.

And I’m not talking about a disadvantage like a big nose (which I have).

I’m talking about a disadvantage like BAD PROGRAMMING.

I had a “map” in my mind… of how I thought I should behave around women… and it turned out to be THE WRONG MAP.

The most frustrating part was that when I did the things that SHOULD work, they made women UN-interested. It was as if the world wasn’t working right.

would be sweet and nice, and a woman would not want to talk to me.

I would call often and share my feelings with her, and she would fall for the rude jerk who could care less about treating her well.

Well, as you might already know, sometimes I’m a “glutton for punishment”.

Translation: I stuck with it anyway. I kept trying to figure out what works… even though the things I was doing WEREN’T working.

The magic “breakthrough” came ONLY after I started making friends with and watching guys who were VERY successful with women… then putting what I knew about psychology and behavior together with the NEW stuff I was learning “in the field”.

What I discovered was literally SHOCKING to me.

I can remember slapping myself on the forehead, shaking my noggin, and laughing to myself… as I watched some of my new friends who were good with women… doing things that just plain SHOULDN’T work… but that DID work.

Here’s one of the lessons I learned:

Body Language is more important than WORD language.

In fact, you can have the smoothest “pick up lines” in the world… but if you don’t understand Body Language, the woman you’re talking to CAN’T feel ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s another one:

Doing “nice” things for a woman doesn’t make her any more likely to feel ATTRACTION for you. In fact, most of these things BACKFIRE… and wind up pushing her AWAY.

Here’s a third lesson I learned:

Even though “jerks” and “bad boys” don’t treat women well, it doesn’t mean that women don’t feel ATTRACTION for them.

In fact, women often report feeling INCREDIBLY attracted to these kinds of men… so powerfully, in fact, that they can’t CONTROL these feelings…

As I was learning these interesting and “counter intuitive” lessons, I also began documenting the specific things that the guys who were “naturals” with women did… in order to attract women.

One of my BIGGEST realizations was that literally ANY guy can attract women… if he just understands how ATTRACTION works. And any guy can use the secrets that “jerks” and “bad boys” have discovered and used… WITHOUT being abusive or mean.

In fact, if you LEAVE OUT the meanness or abuse, a woman will be FAR more likely to STAY around.

Recently, I’ve released two educational programs that teach two very important aspects of how to attract women.

LANGUAGE alone.

The first one is called “Body Language For Success With Women And Dating”. In this program, I will show you how to transform yourself from a “nice, sweet, annoying WUSSY” into a guy who women feel ATTRACTION for… by transforming your BODYLike I said, if you don’t know how to use BODY LANGUAGE to communicate with and attract women, then the WORDS you say DON’T MATTER.

I want you to go right now and watch some video clips from this program HERE:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

The SECOND important program I’ve released recently is called “Cocky Comedy”. In this program

I, and my special guests, spend several hours teaching you how to master the technique that I like to call “Cocky & Funny”.

This is one of the interesting SECRET techniques that the guys who are NATURALLY good with women use.

It’s a special mix of humor and arrogance… that really switches on the “chemistry” with a woman.

There is no other program in the world like this one… and I’d like you to go and watch some of the preview video clips so you get the idea:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

Oh, and if you haven’t taken the time to download my latest eBook “Attraction Isn’t A Choice”, then you really need to go and do that immediately.

You can go and download it right now, and be reading it within a few minutes. Download it here: http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

The 10 Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women

I wrote a book called “Double Your Dating” a few years ago, based on my own personal experiences trying to figure out how to attract women…

After reading all kinds of books, listening to tapes and going to seminars, I found that nothing that was “commercially available” seemed to actually WORK on a consistent basis.

This led me down a several-year- long path of learning, getting to know guys who were EXPERTS with women… and finally testing and refining what I learned to come up with a system that WORKS.

I absolutely guarantee you that this is NOT your dad’s “seventies relationship self-help books” paraphrased.

This is new, cutting-edge stuff… that WORKS. If you use my material, you WILL meet more women starting IMMEDIATELY.

Now let’s get started…

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“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women” And What To Do About It…”

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A “Nice” Guy

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to “nice” guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seemed to date “jerks”… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What’s going on here?

It’s actually very simple…

Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn’t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn’t make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense, and it’s hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you’ll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince” Her To Like You

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like… but she’s just not interested?

Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”.

Think about it.

If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being “reasonable” with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”.

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.

Don’t get me wrong here.

You don’t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had
her REJECT you for someone who didn’t treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It’s only NATURAL when this happens…

That’s right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

“I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection”.

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, andweak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they “feel” too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME by men.

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you’re just likeall the other guys who fall for her too fast…and can’t control themselves.

Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax.

There’s a much better way…

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful womanhe INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?Do women feel sexual attraction to men based

mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually
have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young
woman.

But it’s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how…

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started… because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly,

you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it’s a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea…

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren’t attracted toWussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women

Now I’m going to blow your mind…

A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That’s ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.

If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a
woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don’t like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don’t like to ask for help.

Hey, I’ve been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women…

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn’t know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn’t get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night… right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I’ve dated models, I’ve dated actresses, and I’ve dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling… like I don’t know how to meet women… and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

I’ve written a book on the topic, and I’ve done seminars on both coasts of the United States… and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.

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