The 7 Main Categories a Woman Has for Men in Her Life

How do I avoid falling into her friend’s zone?

“Let’s Just Be Friends” – NOOOOO

The 18th in our 20 Methods You can Use to Attract Women series.

Let’s start this one off with the classic from Biz Markie.. not exactly what we’re going to talk about, but still…

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A woman’s friends zone is one of 7 main categories a woman has for the men in her life. Aside from men in their family, every man a woman knows falls into one of these 7 categories. They are:

• Boyfriend Material
• ABU Material
• Real friend material
• LJBF Material
• Friends of Friends
• Strangers

Boyfriend material:

The woman is sexually attracted to the man, feels comfort with him and sees him as a prime candidate for being her boyfriend.

ABU material:

Attractive but unsuitable. The woman is somewhat sexually attracted to the man, but for one or more reasons he is not suitable boyfriend material (he has certain dislikeable characteristics, he works far away, he’s friends with all his ex-girlfriends, etc.)

Real friend material:

Men in the woman’s life who are genuinely her friends who she sees on a regular basis and whom she does not find sexually attractive.

LJBF material:

Let’s Just Be Friends. This is the category this section is mainly taking about. This is the main one you want to avoid falling into when you start getting to know a woman. The last two categories are self-explanatory.

The reason knowing what those 7 categories are is useful is because it can sometimes be hard to know where you stand with a woman shortly after you’ve met her. You don’t know if she finds you attractive enough to date you, whether she genuinely wants to be friends with you because you get on so well, or whether she felt a spark between the two of you at the beginning which has since died and left you, the man, relegated to the LJBF zone.

The ways to know whether or not you’re in the LJBF zone are:

• Think about how you much effort you are each putting into your burgeoning relationship. Who is working the hardest to keep things moving forward? (Who is texting the most, making the most phone calls, concentrating on keeping the conversations fun, etc.)
• How much tactility is there between you and the woman? Aside from its frequency, what kind of tactility is it? Is it friendly only or is it bordering on sexual?
• Have you crossed the line yet by kissing each other? If not, then that’s something you’ll need to
  do before you can truly be sure you’re out of the Real friend zone or the LJBF zone.

The best ways to keep yourself out of the LJBF zone are:

• Never let things rest and get stale. Every interaction you have with the woman needs to contain flirting, teasing, humor and fun. Things need to gradually move forward. Focus on amplifying tactility between you and the woman so it gets slowly more intimate (lead up to touching her face, her hair, putting your arm around her waist, etc.) If time is right, strike while the iron is hot.
• Don’t miss your opportunity kiss her. you know the If you don’t capitalize on the chance to kiss her, you risk her thinking that you don’t have ability to move things forward—this could put you in her LJBF zone.
• Never give her the impression that all you want from her is to be her friend. Always let teasing, flirting and banter play big roles in your interactions.

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