When Should I Call A Woman After I Get Her Number?

Hello Dave,

I just wanted to start off by saying you have very valid points with women. I have worked at bars and restaurants where women come in looking to hook up with men. And the cocky-funny attitude works wonders. I’m 22 going on 23 and I have had no problem ever getting women to give me their number. But there is one problem I do have. That is timing “the call”. When should I call? Plus I used your “Are you single” approach with this very attractive girl. She gave me 5 mins of her time and I found out some cool things about her. She was very hesitant on giving me her number, but after I sat down to talk to her, she gave me her number. Well, I called her two days after she gave me her number and she was on the other line. So she told me to call her back in 15 mins. I waited 30 and she never answered the phone. so I left a message. Should I rip up her number and never call her again? Or should I call her in a week? Your advise would be greatly appreciated. Plus why would she give me her number if she planned on no talking to me in the first place?

Thanks.

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Answer from David Deangelo, author of Double Your Dating

Don’t Call Her, Email the Woman You Just Met

I personally think that this is one of the funniest questions I hear. I mean, haven’t you watched “Swingers”? lol…

My rule of thumb is to wait at least one day, but not more than a few. The real key is how OFTEN you call her, and more importantly, what you SAY when you call.

But let’s talk about the psychology of why women give out their phone numbers, and why I personally like to get email addresses.

You must remember that attractive women are being approached all the time by men, in one way or another.
They have an unlimited supply of guys to choose from.

I think that a lot of women who give out their numbers, but then respond by being flaky when you call, are doing something that many of us guys wouldn’t have thought of in a million years: I think they’re making themselves feel good.

Explained differently, I think that many women who give out their numbers are looking for the self-image-boosting hit of power that comes from having a lot of men calling them… men that THEY have the power to ACCEPT OR REJECT.

They can also use it to get attention from friends:
“All these guys just keep calling me! Why don’t they just leave me alone! Don’t they get the hint!?”
Now, don’t get me wrong. I know that this sounds a little bit negative… and I don’t mean to say that ALL women do this, or that ALL women are bad, etc. To me, it’s just part of the real world that you need to learn to accept and deal with.

Which leads me to why I get email addresses…
Keep in mind, I’ve tried a lot of different things when it comes to curing this problem of hot-and-cold women who act one way when you meet them, then totally different when you call.

And what I’ve found is that if you get EMAILS instead, you not only differentiate yourself, but you also increase your chances of hearing back from her by about 100%. No lie. For some reason, email has a power that a call does not.

If you have my ebook “Double Your Dating”, then you have read about the technique for getting a woman’s email address within a few minutes of meeting her. Email is also seen as lower risk by her… and it’s easier to get as well.

Try it. You’ll like it.

Double Your Dating Reviews

Double Your Dating

Author : David DeAngelo

Reviews and Testimonials

Here are a few of the reviews and testimonials from satisfied customers of David DeAngel0′s “Double Your Dating” online course.

“I am already in a relationship so I am not looking really to pick up a lot of women these days, but I wanted to learn how to be a more confident man that succeeds in relationships, in business and my career, and in social situations and I have done that now. I would recommend this program to any man no matter if he’s in a relationship or looking to meet more women.”

“If I had known this information 4 years ago I probably would still be married and wouldn’t have gone through a divorce.”

“David DeAngelo has helped to liberate me emotionally in my relationships with women. I don’t have to worry now about what women think of me so much, I just do what I want to do. Women respond to me a lot better now that I take charge. A lot of guys feel so powerless with women and this program changes that.”

“I used to have no idea how to behave around women. Within 6 months of discovering David’s material I have been able to turn my whole dating life around. I am now dating one of the hottest women I have ever met and we are enjoying a mutually satisfying relationship with each other. This program has helped me to rediscover the power of my masculinity.”

“Before when I would see a beautiful girl, I would get so nervous, but now I don’t feel that anxiety anymore. This program is all about becoming a man and leaving the little boy behind. This is serious life improvement.”

“This seminar cleared up a big mystery for me because it taught me how women think. When I began to understand this, things really started to change for me. I have now learned how to approach women with confidence and start a conversation, which is something that has always been a real problem for me. And I am also able to use this in other social situations which is a big plus.”

“This information has helped me to learn how to meet people, get to know them, and get phone numbers more easily.”

“I traveled six thousand miles to hear David DeAngelo speak because he has taught me how to have such a fulfilling life on my own without a woman, that it makes women naturally attracted to me. I have done a lot of research about this area of life and I have never found another program that compares to what David DeAngelo is doing.”

“As a result of studying David DeAngelo’s material I’ve been able to meet a lot more women than I used to before. I would recommend this course to anyone, even if you feel that you are already pretty good at meeting and interacting with women. This will make you better!”

“I have gotten pretty good at meeting women from David’s other programs and now that I am meeting more women, I felt like I needed to learn how to meet the right kind of women for me and how to be more selective with the people I date. This program helped me learn to do this.”

“This program basically taught me how to have better social skills all around. I have been able to learn ‘the art of being cool’.”

How to Get The Upper Hand In The Relationship

Dave,

its working too good for me!!!….lol! You truly know ur stuff. I’ve had so many girls pursue me in the last couple of months. Ive narrowed down my girls down to 2 and they both cant get enough of me, but theres one i really like out of the 2. I’ve recently decided to break it off with one of them and stick with the one i really like, but there’s a problem. With the one that i really like, no one really has the upper hand in the relationship. I dont know what i have to do to gain this powerful control. How can i make this girl wait on my every word!??!?! Any help would be much appreciated. Once again, you are the man Dave.

Thanks again.

B.

Response from David Deangelo, author of “Double Your Dating”

Ahhhhh… interesting.

The one you like is the one who won’t allow herself to be controlled. An attractive woman with a sharp mind and a quick wit. A challenge.

Probably not a coincidence, my friend.

Of course, this is the same thing a woman is looking for in a man… someone who is interesting, challenging, unpredictable…

If I were you, I’d thank my lucky stars that:

1) You found a woman that is this great.

2) You learned how to be and stay attractive to her.

You sound like a guy who’s interested in having a great relationship, but I’m not a relationship counselor.

I get guys INTO troubles like yours, not help them deal with it!

You poor, poor dear.

OK, I gotta go… but one more thing…

If you are thinking to yourself “I really, really need to get this part of my life handled”…

Then YOU’RE RIGHT.

You certainly do need to get it handled.

You need to learn how to become more successful with women and dating RIGHT NOW.

And the very best way to learn how is to get yourself a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.

I spent literally YEARS figuring out all of the hundreds and hundreds of ideas, theories and step-by-step techniques that I teach in this program…and you can have it in your hot little hands to check out at MY RISK. I’ll send it to you for a month… and you don’t have to decide if you want to keep it until AFTER you’ve had a chance to go through it and test it all out.

I’m THAT confident about it helping you.

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Is Pouting Normal Female Behavior?

Hey Dave,

Unsolicited, I think you’re book is AMAZING. NICE WORK! Breaking rapport with humor is a charm! I’m having a blast with it. Ex: Attractive older woman at the cash register tells me to move over to the next register, then she tells another clerk to take care of the next customer, I say, “You just order EVERYBODY around…DON’T you?” She goes, “I’m too old to get married, but I LIKE you! You’re REAL!” So of course, I responded, “Well, I just do what I’m told, but I’m not so sure about you…too BOSSY.” Women love this stuff!

Question: I’ve noticed in three different occasions where chicks have respond to my actions by pouting. I know that you’ve had some great recommendations, i.e., saying, “You’re cute when you pout.”, etc. and it works, but, in your opinion, have you found that the pouters have a lot of personal baggage? Or is that normal female behavior??…or BOTH. The last thing I want to do is get too involved with a neurotic. Please share your experience and observation.

Thanks, DJ
Chicago

Response from David Deangelo, author of “Double Your Dating”

Well, if you date enough women, you’ll get just about every possible response in the world.

Sure, once in awhile a woman will pout if you give her a hard time and tease her.

It’s a judgment call, but if you’re dealing with a fragile personality just say, “Oh, lighten up.”

Most of the time, just do what you’re doing… “You’re cute when you’re mad” is great.

Thanks for your story.

Your Best Method to Get Her to Say YES

The Power of Positive Responses

Towards the end of your conversation with a girl, just before you get her phone number or arrange a date, it pays to ask her a few consecutive questions that you know she’ll answer ‘yes’ to.

Her positive responses temporarily instil a sense of compliance and agreement in her subliminal mind. She basically becomes more likely to answer ‘yes’ to your most important, closing question or statement.

Like “We should grab a coffee tomorrow, don’t you think?”

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Turning Around A Stale Relationship with Seduction Techniques

David,

I just wanted to give your book a plug to all the men out there who are currently involved in a long-term relationship and want to spicethings up. Using the techniques described in your book I completely turned around a 10 year relationship that had gone stale. We went from having sex 2-3 times a day in the first 6 months of the relationship to once or twice a MONTH in the last couple of years. After reading your book, I began the whole cocky/funny routine on my wife and stopped giving in to every little whim she had and…BAM! Just like that she was attracted again. She tried to pretend that she didn’t like the cockiness, but her actions showed how she really felt about it. We’re now back to 2-3 times a week and I’m loving life. Thanks buddy for a great education.

Response from David Deangelo, Author or “Double Your Dating” :

Can I just tell you how much I love gettingemails like this one? Hats off to you.

What Annoys Women and Attracts Them

What Annoys Women, AND What Attracts Them

Article by David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating

If you listen to women talk about men, you’ll often hear them use the word “ANNOYING” to describe certain men and certain things that some men DO.

Now, as you can probably guess, it’s not usually a good thing when a woman uses this particular word to describe a guy…

And, as you can ALSO probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word, it’s not usually about guys who she is ATTRACTED to (although this isn’t always true).

Now, it’s taken me a few years of paying attention to really get a handle on what women are talking about when they say, “He’s annoying” or “It’s so annoying when he does that”.

And guess what I realized was at the ROOT of women finding a guy or his behavior annoying?

IT’S ALMOST ALWAYS WUSSY BEHAVIOR!

AHHHH!

THINGS THAT ANNOY WOMEN…

Here are some of the things that many women consider to be “annoying”:

• Calling her too often
• Telling her that you have “feelings” for her too early
• Giving away your power to her and making her the boss
• Always asking a woman what she wants instead of leading
• Acting submissive and weak
• Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative requests
• Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside

“WHAT?” you say.

“HOW COULD THIS BE?”… you might be thinking.

How is it possible that demonstrating your affection for a woman by calling her, telling her how you feel, letting her make the decisions, and putting her first could be considered ANNOYING, of all things?

Well guess what?

IT IS.

Women, and ESPECIALLY the most ATTRACTIVE and desirable women, usually consider the above things to be VERY annoying.

Of course, the reason for this is because no matter how good these kinds of behaviors seem on the surface, there’s only one conclusion that can be drawn from them:

THE MAN DOING THEM IS A BONAFIDE, 100% CERTIFIABLE WUSSY!

AND WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

NEVER.

Now, do I really, really, REALLY mean that women are NEVER, EVER attracted to Wussies?

I mean, isn’t that an over- generalization?

Nothing is always true, right?

Well, this one IS.

Actually, what I MEAN is…

As far as generalizations go, this particular one is as close to being true all the time as they get.

And just in case I haven’t said this enough, let me say it one more time… just to make sure it’s clear:

WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

So now you understand why all of the “nice” things that you’ve done for women seem to always result in the woman pulling away.

It’s because she finds your nice-guy “Wuss” behaviors to be ANNOYING.

AND IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE…

To further confuse things, you’ll often hear a woman say something to the effect of…

“I want a STRONG guy who is also SENSITIVE…”

…or…

“He needs to have his own life, his own interests, and his own friends, but also be totally focused on me…”

I see things like this in women’s personal ads all the time. I’m sure you’ve seen things like this yourself.

Women often talk about wanting a combination of things in a man that just don’t seem to fit…

So what’s going on here?

Are women crazy? (Yes.)

But seriously, what are they talking about?

How is it that women seem to always talk about wanting men who have these qualities that don’t fit together?

I know that I personally used to hear this stuff and then say to myself “OK, well I’ve got the sensitive part covered so I guess I need to start acting a little bit stronger.”

I thought that maybe this came down to getting my lazy ass to the gym and working out. You know, to become “stronger”.

No, I’m serious.

Well, here’s the BIG REALIZATION that I had…

I’ve now realized that I had it all wrong.

Instead of thinking to myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little stronger, what I really needed was to become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on occasion.

The difference seems almost like word-play, but it’s not. Not at all.

You see, when a woman says that she wants a “strong guy who’s also sensitive”, that’s what she MEANS.

She wants a guy who’s STRONG. The sensitive part is far more “optional” than the STRONG part.

This is why women often date jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don’t date us “nice guys” who would do anything for them.

Remember, ATTRACTION ISN’T A CHOICE.

Women do not sit down and make a list of the qualities that a particular guy has, then think it over it for a few days, then DECIDE whether or not to FEEL ATTRACTION.

NO WAY.

It happens in an INSTANT, and it happens for all kinds of “illogical” reasons… reasons that even the woman who is feeling it can’t usually describe.

So what’s the answer here?

Before I tell you… if you are reading these words I’m saying, and you’re thinking to yourself “Yes! This is my problem!” then I want you to go DIRECTLY to this link before you read any further:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan

The answer here is to realize that many of the things you do when you’re around women that you feel attracted to, are considered ANNOYING by those women.

You must understand that you sometimes have to do things that SEEM to be “inconsiderate” in order to give a woman what she REALLY wants (which is a man who is in control of himself, the situation, and often her).

Raise your right hand, and repeat after me…

• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”
• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”
• “I will stop being a Wussy around women.”

Stop doing things that say “I’m a Wussy”, because those are the very things that women find ANNOYING.

And START doing the things that you’re learning here.

Lean back. Act Cocky & Funny around women. Bust on them and give them a hard time. And LEAD the way, don’t follow.

Now, one of the problems that a lot of guys run into is “putting together” different personality traits that don’t seem to go together.

Women say that they want guys who are funny… but also strong.

Many of the things women SAY they want seem like they CONFLICT with each other.

What’s a guy to do?

Well, THE FIRST thing a guy should do is learn what WORKS.

Not what SOUNDS like it might work.

Not what SHOULD work.

And not what is SUPPOSED to work.

LEARN WHAT WORKS.

I personally spent several years trying to figure out what “works”. Why did it take me so long?

Because, as it turns out, I started out with a HUGE disadvantage.

And I’m not talking about a disadvantage like a big nose (which I have).

I’m talking about a disadvantage like BAD PROGRAMMING.

I had a “map” in my mind… of how I thought I should behave around women… and it turned out to be THE WRONG MAP.

The most frustrating part was that when I did the things that SHOULD work, they made women UN-interested. It was as if the world wasn’t working right.

would be sweet and nice, and a woman would not want to talk to me.

I would call often and share my feelings with her, and she would fall for the rude jerk who could care less about treating her well.

Well, as you might already know, sometimes I’m a “glutton for punishment”.

Translation: I stuck with it anyway. I kept trying to figure out what works… even though the things I was doing WEREN’T working.

The magic “breakthrough” came ONLY after I started making friends with and watching guys who were VERY successful with women… then putting what I knew about psychology and behavior together with the NEW stuff I was learning “in the field”.

What I discovered was literally SHOCKING to me.

I can remember slapping myself on the forehead, shaking my noggin, and laughing to myself… as I watched some of my new friends who were good with women… doing things that just plain SHOULDN’T work… but that DID work.

Here’s one of the lessons I learned:

Body Language is more important than WORD language.

In fact, you can have the smoothest “pick up lines” in the world… but if you don’t understand Body Language, the woman you’re talking to CAN’T feel ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s another one:

Doing “nice” things for a woman doesn’t make her any more likely to feel ATTRACTION for you. In fact, most of these things BACKFIRE… and wind up pushing her AWAY.

Here’s a third lesson I learned:

Even though “jerks” and “bad boys” don’t treat women well, it doesn’t mean that women don’t feel ATTRACTION for them.

In fact, women often report feeling INCREDIBLY attracted to these kinds of men… so powerfully, in fact, that they can’t CONTROL these feelings…

As I was learning these interesting and “counter intuitive” lessons, I also began documenting the specific things that the guys who were “naturals” with women did… in order to attract women.

One of my BIGGEST realizations was that literally ANY guy can attract women… if he just understands how ATTRACTION works. And any guy can use the secrets that “jerks” and “bad boys” have discovered and used… WITHOUT being abusive or mean.

In fact, if you LEAVE OUT the meanness or abuse, a woman will be FAR more likely to STAY around.

Recently, I’ve released two educational programs that teach two very important aspects of how to attract women.

LANGUAGE alone.

The first one is called “Body Language For Success With Women And Dating”. In this program, I will show you how to transform yourself from a “nice, sweet, annoying WUSSY” into a guy who women feel ATTRACTION for… by transforming your BODYLike I said, if you don’t know how to use BODY LANGUAGE to communicate with and attract women, then the WORDS you say DON’T MATTER.

I want you to go right now and watch some video clips from this program HERE:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

The SECOND important program I’ve released recently is called “Cocky Comedy”. In this program

I, and my special guests, spend several hours teaching you how to master the technique that I like to call “Cocky & Funny”.

This is one of the interesting SECRET techniques that the guys who are NATURALLY good with women use.

It’s a special mix of humor and arrogance… that really switches on the “chemistry” with a woman.

There is no other program in the world like this one… and I’d like you to go and watch some of the preview video clips so you get the idea:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

Oh, and if you haven’t taken the time to download my latest eBook “Attraction Isn’t A Choice”, then you really need to go and do that immediately.

You can go and download it right now, and be reading it within a few minutes. Download it here: http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AttractionBook

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

Attract More Women Today: 5 Crucial Tips

Here are so more tips that will help you out with your real life game…

1. How’s this for common sense? GO TO THE GYM!  Keep fit and healthy.  Not only will you look better, but you’ll be more confident
   and just generally feel better.
2. Go shopping with somebody who knows how to dress… PROPERLY!  Sure, everyone has their own unique style.  And I’m not saying you have to dress up in funny-looking hats and paint your fingernails black to “peacock”… but wear something NICE. Go shopping with a friend that has great style.  Or, even better, bring a girl along with you.
3. Get a tan.
4. STAND UP STRAIGHT!  Body language, body language, body language!  It is said that 93% of all communication is non-verbal. That’s right.  A massive portion of your game has to do with how your physical body communicates.
5. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again! Learn from someone who KNOWS THEIR STUFF.

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Women Are Clueless

Clueless Woman Shrugging

Women Are Clueless When It Comes to Understanding The Components Of Attraction & Seduction

Many guys read about the kinds of attraction and seduction principles you have recently been learning, love them, but are afraid to try and use them because they’re worried that their motives will be immediately obvious to the women they talk to and try the techniques on.

If you have even a remotely similar feeling to this then you must remember that women’s minds work differently to guys’. And I don’t mean we’re like a different species, aren’t human or anything like that.

For example, a guy might be concerned that his opener will, when used, come across as a blatant attempt to get talking to the girl he uses it on with the sole intention of getting into her pants somewhere down the line.

However, the reason he feels this way is because of HIS perspective on the situation. He knows that he’s got an opener in mind to get a conversation going and is fully aware of the fact that he’s been actively learning about the social dynamics and psychological rules
of attraction and seduction.

The female he uses the opener on, however, has a complete different perspective. All she sees is a guy approach her, confidently and casually, and start a fun and interesting conversation. And women love that.

So, remember that MOST women don’t and can’t fully understand and appreciate the intricate components of attraction between themselves and men and what goes into creating it.

As a result, when you think they might be aware of your techniques and what you’re using them for, they are in fact much more likely to just be enjoying the attention you’re giving them and the fun, chemistry-filled conversation you’re having together.

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