76 Things You Can Learn from a Seduction Guide

What’s in a Seduction Guide?

Here’s a small sample of what you’ll learn from just one of the many seduction guides available online today. Are they worth the money? That’s up to you to decide.

This is a fairly big starter list, but at the end there’s a link to get a free  Crash Course pdf download, so feel free to skip to it if you feel the need.

1. How to approach any woman you don’t know and start a conversation with her – without being rejected or “blown out”.
2. The 7 “Attraction blaster” conversation techniques that automatically build attraction in her mind
3. How to get a woman into your bed within 68 minutes of meeting her for the first time, without getting next day “buyers remorse” – and have her calling you the next day wanting more
4. How to use the Internet (Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, Bebo etc) to get at LEAST 5 high quality dates per week
5. Why your looks, how tall you are, what money you make and other factors simply DO NOT MATTER AT ALL… IF… You act in this certain way – and NO it’s not being “Alpha”.
6. How to turn girl “friends” into lovers
7. The 17 simple steps to having an interesting conversation with anyone, not just women – that guarantee you’ll never run out of things to say
8. How to dress to always make a good visual impact and make her want to be your “proud girlfriend”.
9. The 10 WRONG things to say, that WILL shock her at first, but then transform her into thinking you’re someone very special – within the hour.
10. How to build humor into your conversation that creates sexual chemistry on demand – she’ll forget what you look like, what you do and just want you for how you make her feel
11. Use these 6 secret words next time you’re on a first date and she’ll go from “I don’t usually do this on a first date” to “Want to come in for a coffee?”
12. The vitally important 8 secret techniques that overcome the “I have a boyfriend” objection – she’ll forget about him in 17 seconds once you’ve “performed” this routine.
13. Female body language to look out for in conversation that shows EXACTLY what’s she’s thinking, so you can adjust your game at the right moment.
14. The BEST time to END a conversation that GUARANTEES she’ll be looking forward to spending more time with you
15. The simple “rapport amplifier” routine that will befriend her male and female friends so that her friends will do the hard work for you and hand you the girl – on a plate! They’ll even persuade her that YOU are the right guy to be with.
16. The 5 signals every woman gives out that lets you know she’s attracted to you – and what to do when she gives them – do this and she’ll be yours. The end.
17. How to use female body language to “read her mind” and then what to say to her to make her feel – she’s known you for years!
18. The biggest differences between day time and night time pickups and how to maximize your chances in both.
19. Women FEEL first, and THINK second. Use the “how does this feel” routine to get the first kiss and generate enough sexual tension to make her forget she doesn’t usually do this with guys she just met – effortless and powerful
20. Learn the 3 different approaches for building attraction in the female mind – from slow to fast and when to use each depending on your desired goal (do you want a date? A girl friend? Or just sex? – YOU decide which).
21. Why you should NEVER buy a woman a drink – and why you’ll reduce your chances with her by 92% if you do.
22. The best first date ideas and the places you should NEVER take her
23. If you can get her to take this one item of clothing off – she’s 3 times more likely to sleep with you today – and here’s a clue – it’s NOTHING “naughty” like her bra or pants.
24. The 7 signs of negative body language – that IF she shows, you HAVE to do the “belt body reversal” technique on her – or she’s gone.
25. Identify self-limiting beliefs that are holding you back using our interactive tool and then eliminate them permanently from your mind using ‘acc & adv’ concepts. No longer will physical or mental insecurities make you sweat or your heart race when you want to approach and talk to a hot girl.
26. The 5 things you MUST do BEFORE approaching women that most men don’t even know about – don’t do them and 9 out of 10 times beautiful women WILL reject you.
27. The ‘Kamikaze Principle’ will end that ” awkward conversation” feeling. No more stumbling over your words
28. Discover the truth behind your physical appearance and why women really care more about how you dress than how good looking you are – if you do this one thing.
29. Discover the ‘Confidence Amplification’ principle to build REAL, unwavering self-belief, courage and confidence within 24 hours.
30. Use the ‘Polar Arrangement’ – a unique concept that allows you to talk to the opposite sex with absolute ease and with complete self-confidence. Even chatting to those 10 out of 10 girls becomes a breeze!
31. The 5 things most men say that will INSTANTLY kill your chances with a woman – and these are things that MOST guys say EVERY time.
32. How to truly understand body language and non-verbal communication and read a woman’s mind by watching her physical behavior. You’ll be able to know exactly what any girl is thinking, even if her words say different…
33. Use ‘The Probe’ technique to instantly and accurately determine whether or not a girl is attracted to you. Without saying a single word to her, you’ll know if she’s already formed a liking for you.
34. There are four fundamental stages to every successful seduction attempt that a man MUST know if he is to get a girl’s number, arrange a date with her or hook-up with her on their first day of knowing each other. You are taught about each stage in detail…
35. You’ll learn about advanced scoping principles. These allow you to look around a room and “read” women like they were books. You’ll know which are single and which are interested in you…the whole story.
36. Day-time and night-time pick-ups are completely different and all master seducers know the differences between the two. You’ll be taught the advantages of each, so no matter what the time of day is, you’ll be able to successfully seduce any girl you’ve spotted.
37. 99% of people do not understand what an alpha male truly is. You will be told all about them and how you can be one in the RIGHT way. You’ll have the respect of men and the admiration and attention of women.
38. You’ll also be taught about alpha females – how to spot them and how they affect the dynamic of a pick-up attempt. Never get caught out by a loud-mouth girl or obnoxious woman again!
39. The 5 rules of approaching and opening are crucial aspects of every master seducer’s mental toolbox of knowledge. When you know all 5 rules, you have the ability to walk up to a girl or group of girls just like they were male friends of yours that you’ve known for years – with total confidence, self-assurance and rock-solid charisma.
40. What to do if a guy tries to “c*ck block” you - alpha style.
41. Discover the science of proximity principles. These are special spatial concepts that universally apply to all women which means you can use them to heighten the feelings a girl has for you when you talk to her.
42. You’ll be taught about the art of opening. This is a HUGE part of successful seduction, as no conversation with a woman can begin unless you use an opener. Our openers have all been road-tested for years by experts from all over the world.
43. The 4 simple words that will open conversation with ANY girl or group of girls.
44. Discover how to use a technique called ‘Time Limitation’ to make women BEG for you to continue talking to them. You won’t ever again have to worry about conversations with women getting boring or dying after a couple of minutes when you use a ‘Time Limitation’ technique.
45. There’s a science to using wing men AND wing women when you’re out playing the pick-up game. You’ll be told which combinations of wing men/wing women work and which do not.
46. The biggest mistake most “nice guys” make just before she tells you “I really like you as a friend”
47. How to use a girl’s name to subliminally engage her and create a feeling in her subconscious mind that you’ve formed a real connection with each other.
48. You’ll be thoroughly coached on ‘conversation construction’. It’s something experts in social interaction have been using for years and an art YOU can use to make your interactions with women sizzle with sexual chemistry. You’ll always stand out from other men girls talk to because your conversational skills will blow theirs away.
49. Discover the 4 letter word that when used will make you instantly likeable to any group of guys and instantly attractive to any group of girls.
50. Find out the magical ‘floor-sharing ratio’ that, when used in a conversation with a woman, makes her feel like she’s having the time of her life with you. You can rest assured that no girl will ever feel bored by what you are talking about again.
51. Initiating physical closeness and contact with a girl (by casually touching her in some way) is a critical and necessary step that MUST be completed before you can seduce her. Most men don’t know how to do it, but you’ll be taught the secrets of ‘Stealth Tactility’ – a method of easily and comfortably starting mutual physical touching between you and any girl.
52. ‘Deflection Theory’, using it you can psychologically make a girl you like – but who isn’t initially reacting to your advances – suddenly feel madly attracted to you. You do this by deflecting your techniques in a special way onto one or more of her friends. It’s seriously powerful stuff…
53. Use the ‘Read & Relate’ technique to quickly and effortlessly find topics of conversation that will make the girl you’re talking to feel connected to you and like she really enjoys your company.
54. How to master the art of listening. Once you know how to truly listen to what a girl is saying to you, you’re able to repackage specific and special pieces of information she’s given you into excellent questions and comments – this – as a result – makes the girl feel “on your wavelength” and like you’ve both really clicked.
55. Discover the 3-step-BBS-system to FIX things with a girl you already screwed up with
56. How to combine the seduction techniques you learn into easily repeatable step-by-step pick-up attempts. You won’t have to worry about what to do or say next, as your pre-planned pick-up approach provides you with all the instruction and information you need.
57. How to use ‘Subject Sniping’ to select and focus in on topics of conversation that are close to your target female’s heart. Once you begin talking about them, women immediately open up to you and share their thoughts, feelings and emotions. This is exactly what you need if you want to arrange a date with them or get their phone number.
58. Discover ‘Red Letter Topics’. These are special conversation topics that – when talked about with a girl – consistently and repeatedly create strong, enjoyable interactions that make her feel like she’s having lots of fun with you.
59. How to use ‘Dynamic Exhibitions’ to capture and keep the attention of a girl or group of girls and have them amazed at your confidence, social skill and level of leadership.
60. Learn exactly how to demonstrate personal value and self-worth. When you clearly display both of these qualities, you come across as sexually attractive and socially adept – in short, women love you.
61. How to use Target Isolation to separate your target female from a group of her friends, enabling you to continue and complete your pick-up attempt by kissing her, getting her number and/or arranging a date.
62. For when a conversation with a girl feels like it might be slowing down or getting difficult, you’ll learn how to use ‘Cliff-hanger Comments’. These are special statements that instantly snap a girl’s focus and attention back to you and have her gagging for you to continue talking to her. They’re amazingly powerful.
63. How to use advanced non-verbal mirroring techniques to make a girl feel, without her consciously knowing why, a deep sense of comfort while around you – just like you’ve know each other for years.
64. You’ll be trained on how to use third parties (like barmen and other people who are around at the time) to make your pick-up attempts extra effective and even more successful.
65. Discover how to use the sense of internal consistency all women have in their subliminal minds to make her feel an undeniable urge to be around you and, once your first conversation is over, to see you again as soon as possible.
66. Uncover the very BEST first date locations — and why one of the most popular places to go on a first date is the WORST first date EVER! She HATES it… but I guarantee, you’ll have thought about taking her there.
67. Learn how to anchor special positive feelings to everyday words and casual physical touches. You’ll be able to make a girl feel happy, horny or playful simply by tapping her on her knee or muttering a short, innocent word or two.
68. The art of closing. You’ll be trained in all of the most important aspects of closing (getting a positive result from an interaction with a girl). You’ll learn the dos and don’ts most men don’t even know exist.
69. Learn how to use ‘The Add-on Principle’ to make arranging a date with a girl seem like the most obvious and justified ending to your conversation with her.
70. How to use ‘The Power of Yes’ to instill a feeling of positivity and compliance into a girl’s subconscious mind, so when you ask for her number or suggest going for a drink tomorrow night, she always says “Yes!”.
71. How to use ‘Option Limitation’ to massively decrease the chance of a girl saying no to anything you suggest, be it going for a date or going back to her place.
72. You’ll be taught about one-way number closes, so once you’re done talking to a girl, you can either get her number or make her feel an irresistible urge to ask you for yours.
73. You’ll learn about swap-number closes – special ways to end interactions with girls in which you give each other your contact details. This mutual swap makes the girl more eager than ever to see and speak to you again.
74. Email address closes – you’ll discover when and why it’s sometimes best to get an email address – not a number and learn a unique email address closer that has a 90% success rate when used properly.
75. How to use number checking to quickly and accurately know if a girl’s trying to pull a fast one on you and give you a fake number. You’ll never again have to suffer the disappointment of getting home and dialing an invalid number.
76. Learn how to use ‘contact closes’ to end your conversation with a girl in the best possible way, ensuring she remembers you and has you and only you at the forefront of her conscious mind until the time you next meet up.

Source: Black Belt Seduction

The site that provided these bullet points  is giving away a free, 31-page “crash course” pdf eBook download with some REALLY valuable tips in it. All you have to do is visit the site and sign up to receive the free course. Well worth your time if you’re interested in any of the points mentioned above.

How to Get a Girls Number

How do get her phone number?

The 12th in our 20 Methods You can Use to Attract Women series.

The simple answer to this question is: if you can sexually attract her, you won’t need to get her phone number, because she’ll practically throwing it at you. Of course, this question is more about exactly what you say and do afterattracting the woman to make getting her phone number a smooth, stress-free action.

There are three pre-requisites that you should make sure are in place before you attempt what’s known as a number-close:

3 Prerequisites for a  number-close

1. There MUST be sexual attraction. You need to have spoken to each other long enough for her to feel attracted to you in a pretty big way. Use your knowledge of female body language, along with your gut instinct, to determine how much you have or haven’t attracted your target before you do the number close.
2. There should at least a little bit of comfort developed between you and your target. Comfort happens after attraction has been established. It is created through slightly deeper one-on-one conversation, during which you discuss more personal topics, likes dreams and ambitions.
3. You should be suitably distant from her friends. If you’re in the middle of her friends when you ask for her number she might feel uncomfortable, even if she’s attracted to you.

Next, no matter what words you use to propose the idea of you and her swapping numbers (which is a lot better than you just getting hers), you should deliver those words in the following way.

• Confidently. If you’re nervous, the number close won’t go as smoothly as it could.
• Clearly. No mumbling or stuttering allowed
• Directly.In conversation, it’s important you don’t quickly skip from subject to subject because doing so shows that you don’t really care what you talk about with the girl, just that you are talking to her. This lowers your value in her mind, because you’re putting her on a pedestal that says she deserves special attention and adoration. In closing, a similar concept applies. When you’re specific in your closing suggestion, you show that you are interested in doing a particular thing with the girl; something you’ve thought about and decided would be fun.

When you make the suggestion to the girl, she recognizes this and likes it–-which makes her say ‘yes’. However, if you are vague in what you suggest when you close, the following message is conveyed to the girl: “I don’t really care what we do or when we do it, all I know is that I want to see you again!” If the girl is VERY into you, she might not mind this too much, but as a general rule, you should avoid sending this kind of message. Instead, take a much more laid back approach, make the proposal specific and deliver it confidently.

Probably the best method you can use to close is to ask her she if wants to join you and some of your friends to do something soon that is already planned. This is powerful because it shows…

• You have a good social circle.
• The situation won’t be too intense for her, because it won’t be one-on-one.
• There will be other girls there for her to talk to.
• The event is already planned, so you’re not just inventing it for her sake.

Obviously you need to be able to arrange a real event with some your real friends to use this closer. It is definitely something you should aim to do though. When she agrees, swapping numbers is the most natural and expected thing you could possibly do—how else could you arrange anything? It’s perfect. It makes the number swap so easy.

Source: Black Belt Seduction Crash Course by Matthew William Sharpe

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